To be clear, I'm married. I don't apologize for it. I'm not looking
to change it either. If you don't want to be a part of that, I
respect your decision, and wish you the best in your own
That said, why would you want to deal with that? I'm actually very
nice, I listen well, I can fix things. I've had formal, but not
academic, massage training. I take great pleasure in my partner's
joy. I'm easy going and am willing to take what you are willing to
offer (but I am not a doormat). I'll respect your boundaries and
privacy and expect the same. I like partner dancing (and am
reasonably good at it). I enjoy being exposed to new hobbies and
What I’m doing with my life
I like what I do for a job, because I can feel like I'm leaving the
world a better place than I left it.
I like my community volunteerism for similar reasons.
But I haven't done a lot for myself recently, and that's part of
what I'm looking to change being on this site.
I’m really good at
I can set up a home entertainment system or computer without
breaking it in frustration.
I am a good listener, and a good problem solver.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty tall (6'1"), I've been told I have bedroom eyes. I'm
overweight (and slowly working on it), but I easily fit in an
airline or movie theater seat without spilling over.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Musically, I like most things, Classic Rock is probably my
favorite, I like dance-able music. If you don't couples or social
dance, I'm a pretty good teacher, and I'm sure we'd have fun. I'm
not a big fan of hip-hop or rap, but I can listen to it.
Books and Film, I like science fiction, adventure and comedy.
The six things I could never do without
food, air, water, shelter, companionship, and learning.
Oh, you want the non-literal answers ...
In truth, although there are many things I really like ... engaging
fiction stories, good sushi, a strong circle of friends, family,
soda, the internet and all the world it brings to me; I am pretty
self-actualized and could get by without most things if I had to.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I would actually do with the world once my plans to take it
over finally succeed, unfortunately I haven't figured that part out
yet - and so my plans wait. There is no point in starting a war
without a plan for the peace.
On a typical Friday night I am
I'll usually find a good movie on cable or cue up a dvd while I
play around on the computer.
I would like to get out more.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a very private person ... maybe after we know eachother
You should message me if
You are not looking for a long term relationship.
You can accept not being the primary focus of my attention when we
are not together.
You do not have an objection to spending some very enjoyable times
together with someone who is already involved in a long term