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45 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:18pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm confident enough to walk my own path in life. I've taken the road less traveled and have gotten lost on more than one occasion. I'm 45 now and finally feeling successful. I guess I arrived late to the party, but the journey is always more fun and memorable than the destination.

I'm a child psychologist with a private practice on the Upper West Side. I feel like I'm really contributing in a positive way to the development of young hearts and minds. Perhaps this is the foundation I needed to feel comfortable enough to settle down.

My intention is to find a woman on this site that I can enjoy, laugh with, even love on occasion. I want to be a father. Maybe even before marriage. Know that I have done a great deal of work on myself and look for those qualities in a woman.

I love to cuddle (seriously) so don't write me if you are uncomfortable with touch.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a child psychologist, with a center I founded on the Upper West Side of Manhattan. I like to write (I'm an advice columnist on the Huffington Post) and travel with a purpose. Studied in Jerusalem. Taught English in South Korea and Japan. Learned Gestalt Therapy in Greece, Poland, Hungary, Slovenia---a new place in Europe each summer. I like snow boarding and live for great powder days.
I’m really good at
Making burgers on the grill. Finding cool bars and restaurants. Snowboarding. Listening (it's my job).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I like Gabriel Garcia Marquez and historical fiction. Any movie starring Ed Norton and/or Ben Stiller. Any movie by Oliver Stone (yes, that's right). Gangster rap (my last job was in Compton so technically, I'm straight outta compton). Contemporary art. Fruit. Brazilian dancing ("Forro"). I also love Korean food, having lived in Pusan for a year. Im a fan of burnt popcorn. I don't have cable but love netflix.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, my tongue, but mostly my cerebellum.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can improve myself. I'm a work in progress.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, at home relaxing, donning a cape and fighting crime.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love beef jerky, spittin' sunflower seeds and talk radio about conspiracy theories and UFOs. I secretly wish I was a spy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel the mixed sensation of curiosity, hope and excitement after reading my profile.