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50 Santa Fe, NM Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 38–54
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
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5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Dropped out of Post grad
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Smart and sassy pretty much sums me up.
I have many talents, an interesting but stressful job, way too much energy, and passion.
I'm going to say some things you most likely will find offensive so if you are sensitive please move on.

I'm not looking for a nice guy. I'm not looking for a jerk either. But if I had to choose between a nice guy and a jerk i'd choose the jerk. WHAT! ? Here's the deal. Nice guys aren't nice. They are in fact passive aggressive jerks. A nice guy will never say what he really thinks or wants. He will manipulate you at every turn. No way to have a relationship with that.
So what I do want is someone with integrity that I can build an honest relationship with.

If you're looking for a penpal keep looking.
If you're looking for a dominatrix keep looking.
If you're looking for someone to dominate, keep looking.

I'm balanced and want a balanced relationship.

I think friendship is the cornerstone of a good relationship and hate dating. Let's go out as friends and see what develops.
My religion says Judaism but it's more a philosophy and ethnicity to me. I'm an agnostic. Check out

I'm looking for an almost extinct species. A real man. If you're sensitive and touchy feely-good for you. Plenty of women want that, I don't. Please be a man.

Check out my singles group.

If you are interested then write. If you lack the guts to write I'm not interested. If it's too generic, insincere, or you're very serious about a religious dogma, you're wasting your time.

You get plusses for
Being culturally jewish
You can converse in Hebrew
You DANCE!- real men dance! Freestyle doesn't count.
You've lived overseas
You have a scientific mind coupled with a creative/artistic talent.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying it as much as I can
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I set my mind to be good at.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smart and short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I like spicy food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Besides the essentials there's nothing I can't do without.
My preference would be to not have to do without:

Fresh fruits and vegetables.
A sense of purpose in life.
Intelligent conversation.
Someone to love.
My health.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lots of things, including how nice it would be to be able to turn my brain off once in a while
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm human.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Most important is that you do not have damsel in distress syndrome. I do not need saving.

You understand that if you aren't part of the solution you are part of the precipitate.

You understand and agree with the following equation: the integral of e to the power of x equals a function of u to the nth.