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29 Champaign, IL Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:05pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
6' 4" (1.93m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English, Arabic (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've traveled and lived all over the US and overseas, visiting various countries in Europe, the Middle East, and Central America. I need to get my ass to Africa and Southeast Asia, but find travel buddies who have time and resources is tough.

I played rugby throughout undergrad/grad school, and coached the women's team during grad. Now that I'm finally back, I'm playing with the Flatlanders here in town. Outside of that, I love to swim and lift (not seriously).

I'm happily polyamorous (consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy) and dating a wonderful woman who lives in NYC. We try and see one another about once a month.

I don't drink coffee, and whenever someone is nice and thinks to bring me a cup, I feel absurdly guilty for turning it down. But seriously, it tastes gross

"In Euclid and grammar they taught me to write
But my heart, it was stolen by a pair of brown thighs
That came from the mountains, her stockings are white,
I'd love to be tied to her garter."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I was living in the southern Iraq (no, I wasn't military or a mercenary) for a year and a half, and it was (sometimes) rad, but I returned to the states for a more stable existence. After doing a lot of traveling and getting my head on straight, I started a new job doing scientific consulting work on a geologic CO2 sequestration (no one knows what this is, so it's cool it you don't) project through the ISGS.

Now I'm usually zooming around on my motorcycle, eating focaccia on my front porch during thunderstorms, or humming the "Captain Planet" theme song while helping to save the world from climate change.

Also, growing my hair out
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Channeling my inner Malcolm Reynolds/Han Solo
Reconstructing dinosaurs (for real)
Stepping on landmines and having them not explode (twice)
The Oxford comma
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1) height - I'm pretty tall
2) tattoo
3) smile - from ear to ear
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: Arcade Fire, Kings of Leon, Mumford and Sons, The Pogues, Flogging Molly, The Black Keys, Sex Pistols, Band of Horses, Interpol, Muse, RHCP, Smashing Pumpkins, Daft Punk, The National, Jeff Buckley, The Casualties, Deer Tick, (list continues on into infinity)...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- "The Flying Death Machine" (my motorcycle)
- Irish rock
- Thunderstorms
- Future travel plans
- Video games (yeah I know its eye-roll inducing, but its on the list, so there)
- Breakfast food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Humanity's short-sightedness
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm secretly a giant nerd (I don't advertise the super dorky bits).

Sometimes I have cookies for breakfast because I'm worth it
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're down with ethical non-monogamy, you've got amazing stories to share, or you think we'd hit it off