My heart is very big. I love to share my life with people and my time. I enjoy making the people around me happy and I like for us all to have fun.
I am driven. I know how to set goals and how to achieve them. I will do what it takes to reach my goals. I do not shy from hard work or though decisions.
My friends say that I make them feel safe when I am around and that I can be a tough guy. I do not think that is the case. I think the feeling of safety comes from my stoicness (yes I made up a word) and that I am not as tough as some people think.
I speak my mind and tell it like I see it. I am not an ass or jerk just very out spoken. I do not seek out a fight but I will fight when the good fight is worth it. I do know how to bite my tongue when needed.
I love time with my family and close friends. I prefer a small intimate setting where conversation can take place. Not to say the clubs are no go, people watching is always fun.
I am looking for a man who has his affairs in order and is self reliant. But not a bore. I like to have a good fun time.
I want him to have goals and dreams of his own, but that have a place for me in them. I do not want to become his whole world.
I want to be able to talk about current events, pop culture, life and just about anything else.
Ultimately what I am looking for is someone to fall in love with but friends and dates for now is okay too.
That is me in a little nutshell.
Tips on How to be Successful in Winning my Attention:
First, be A MAN OF YOUR WORD. I am not a fan of just being told something to hear it. If you make plans KEEP them or at the very least call and explain why they are being broken. Your time is important to me and my time should be important to you. It is not being demanding it is about respect and common courtesy.
Second, be HONEST. When you say something mean IT. Do not be worried with trying to spare my feelings, I am a man be HONEST I can take it.