I'm a total Anime, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Gamer geek, who also happens to be very kinky. I'm active in the Phoenix BDSM and Kink scene. I identify as a Kinkster, or as Midori puts it, a box jumper, and range from light spanking to edgeplay. I'm a member of both TNG Arizona, and APEX, and make my own silicone dildos, and other adult toys. You can check them out here https://www.etsy.com/shop/GespenstsFantasyGear I make some pretty crazy shit! My Fetlife name is GESPENST, in case you're a fellow kinkster as well!
I'm polyamourus and currently have 1 partner, she has 2, and I know it's not for everyone, but it works well for me. I'm not really on here to get laid, or find another relationship. i'm looking for friends, and potential play partners.
I love fair skinned women with tattoos, and other forms of body modification, with the exception of breast implants. I'm not a boob man, but nothing feels as soft and soothing as resting my head against natural breasts of any size. I like women of all shapes and sizes, but prefer a woman with some curves otherwise I'm always subconsciously worried I'm gonna break her in half when I get physical. Some common geek interests are a plus. RPGs, Anime, and Scifi/Fantasy are king in my world, so if you just want someone to scene with you, and send you home, don't bother. I want a friend as well as someone to play with.
I enjoy the outdoors, despite my pasty Northern European Heritage getting me burned in the Arizona sun after being out for 10 minutes. Night camping, and hiking are a blast, and my favorite outdoor activities, besides outdoors sex, of course.