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32 M Scottsdale, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:34pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Social Life
I'm a total Anime, Sci-Fi, Fantasy, Gamer geek, who also happens to be very kinky. I'm active in the Phoenix BDSM and Kink scene. I identify as a Kinkster, or as Midori puts it, a box jumper, and range from light spanking to edgeplay. I'm a member of both TNG Arizona, and APEX, and make my own silicone dildos, and other adult toys. You can check them out here I make some pretty crazy shit! My Fetlife name is GESPENST, in case you're a fellow kinkster as well!

I'm polyamourus and currently have 1 partner, she has 2, and I know it's not for everyone, but it works well for me. I'm not really on here to get laid, or find another relationship. i'm looking for friends, and potential play partners.

I love fair skinned women with tattoos, and other forms of body modification, with the exception of breast implants. I'm not a boob man, but nothing feels as soft and soothing as resting my head against natural breasts of any size. I like women of all shapes and sizes, but prefer a woman with some curves otherwise I'm always subconsciously worried I'm gonna break her in half when I get physical. Some common geek interests are a plus. RPGs, Anime, and Scifi/Fantasy are king in my world, so if you just want someone to scene with you, and send you home, don't bother. I want a friend as well as someone to play with.

I enjoy the outdoors, despite my pasty Northern European Heritage getting me burned in the Arizona sun after being out for 10 minutes. Night camping, and hiking are a blast, and my favorite outdoor activities, besides outdoors sex, of course.
What I’m doing with my life
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Silicone molding and casting is the name of the game. I also am starting to get back into the whole costuming thing. Occasionally laughing maniacally in the Dungeon. Making women shudder and squirt. What can I say, I'm a dirty bastard, and I love it!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making almost anything with my hands, caning, flogging, spanking, tying pretty girls up, making dirty puns, Strategy RPG's.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a ton of tattoos, and a massive septum piercing. I'm also known to sport kilts. Then of course my scrotum has been touted as epic by many a fellow kinkster.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'll be honest, I don't read much lately, But for fiction, I've been slowly working my way through Hideyuki Kikuchi's Vampire Hunter D series. I've been wanting to read the Song of Fire and Ice series. Non fiction Lee Harrington, Deborah Addington, Douglas Kent's Complete Shibari, and the 2 Knotty Boys books are some of my faves.

The Secretary, Labryinth, The Neverending Story, The Monty Python Films, V for Vendetta, Clerks, The Goonies, Indiana Jones, Star Wars, The Broken Lizard Films, Animal House, Austin Powers movies, Boondock Saints Movies, most anything with Bruce Campbell in it, Stanley Kubrick films, The Crow, The Dark Crystal, Tim Burton films, Death Race 2000, Interview With The Vampire, David Lynch films, Tarantino films, The Lord of the Rings, etc...etc...etc...

Game of Thrones, The Big Bang Theory, Farscape, Invader Zim, Futurama, Family Guy, Robot Chicken, Red Dwarf, Vikings, True Blood, The Venture Bros, and a ton of Anime. If its Nerdy Fantasy, or animated, I'm probably into it, and I can't stand so called reality tv.

Metal, industral, punk rock, Celtic, and J rock. I'm not a huge audiophile like most people I know.

I will eat almost anything, although I'm allergic to onions, so none of them.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Women, women's orgasms, orgasms, Single Malt Scotch, RPGs, Dark Beer roughly in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dildo designs, getting my buisness off the ground.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having crazy fun sex with my submissive, console or portable video gaming (I don't do online, or that FPS bullshit everyone clammers over), or working on something dildo related.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I really don't keep much private, so you can ask anything and I'll give you an honest answer.
You should message me if
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To be honest, I'm just on here to see who's on here, and make some friends. I don't really ever initiate conversations here, so if you find something about me interesting, or have questions, send me a message.