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38 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:15pm
Relationship Type
5' 3" (1.61m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there.
I'm really into graffiti, music, gardening, traveling, going on adventures, making forts, making out, cooking, reading, napping, snuggling, making things, laughing my ass off, yoga, Pottery, dancing, Kung fu movies, working out and then complaining how much my arms hurt, growing tomatoes,
meditation, getting crunk, mario kart, sleeping on the beach, playing terrible Tennis

To save us time, I am NOT your type if you are a fast food eating, non-reading, reality TV watching, sport fanatic, unconscious to the world around you, only looking for sex, top 40, kind of fella.
I AM your type if you are deep, thoughtful, artistic, smart, super weird and can keep up.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lot's of gardening, trying to grow all the veggies i need.
Enjoying the amazing art around us
Learning to play the ukulele
Playing video games
Looking at art for a living
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Believe it or not I'm really good at doing the dolphin dive into the centipede
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Flying lotus, Non Prophets, Mr. Lif, Nosaj Thing , Menehan street project, grayskul, Mono/Poly, Deep puddle dynamics, Nick Drake, Mos Def, Gottan project, run the jewels, Bob Marley, beats antique, thievery Corporation, Bus Driver , Guts, the gray kid, operation Ivy, Led Zeppelin, Billie holiday, Belle and Sebastian, the Beatles, beck, Hans Zimmer, the bell Furies, Kimya Dawson, Erykah Badu, Desmond Dekker, Elliott Smith, dead Prez, Stevie wonder, Buenavista social club, the beastie boys, black sabbath, toots, Nina Simone , al green , Why?, Slick Rick, de la soul, , Biggie , Mc Solar, Missy , Andrew bird, Reggie watts, Django Reinhardt, parliament, fela kuti, bonobo, fruit bats, final fantasy, Monk, Andrew Bird, Queen, bassnectar, Gogol Bordello, Fela Kuti, De La Soul, Ennio Morricone, Au Revoir Simone, Simon and G, Tribe called quest,, Dose One, DJ shadow, pharcyde,
Confederacy of Dunces, Ishmael, tibetan book of the dead, John dies at the end, a prayer for owen meanie, christopher moore, Geek Love, The Fan Man, Lamb, Dharma Punx, Chopra, Thích Nhất Hạnh, Pema Chödrön, Walt Whitman. Sedaris, Burroughs, Hunter S Thompson, Joseph Campbell, So much more, but you get the idea
Down by law, pulp fiction, City of God, castaway on the moon, Harold and Maude, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, secretary, foul play, thrive, True romance , Wes Anderson, anything , wasteland, the collective evolution, Rivers and tides, capitalism a love story, Fight club, forks over knives, snatch, Twin Peaks, babies, being John Malkovich, touching the void, Darjeeling Limited, the Royal Tannenbaum's, this is spinal tap, Night on earth, Y tu mama Tambien, unmistaken child, marwencol, dark days, beautiful losers, true romance, Zeitgeist, TEDtalks. Bob'Burgers!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Your mom
Furry animals
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I try to keep thinking to a minimum
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Making stuff
Hanging out with pals
Artsy fartsy stuff
Getting in the car for a weekend adventure
Drinking Lambic And other beverages that tastes like hello kitty
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got more rhymes than Jamaica's got mangos
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are artistic, creative, open minded, easy going, you like going on adventures, like thicker gals and you are interesting.
I like weird or off the beaten path kind of fellas with good style and great breath