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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–42
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 15
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from space camp
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love good food and can't stop learning about stuff. I dig introspection, ambitions, wits and honesty. I am profoundly irreverent, fiercely independent, and hoard good people. I love my work and make time for the people I care about. I tend to get fixated on "big picture", coffee shops with free wifi, and good tv.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
juggling many worlds while trying to save some of them, a little bit at a time. I run nonprofits and campaigns. Right now, mainly state-level advocacy and legislations that address hunger and food insecurity. Before that I was the first straight person to direct a statewide LGBT civil rights/marriage equality group. I teach people how to organize other people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good at taking pictures, listening, asking questions, making you laugh, solving problems, killing plants, finding perfect bites. and oh, I have special power in persuading customer service representatives to comply with my wishes and admit their mistakes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am the most social/introverted, confident/shy, witty/awkward person in the room.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
an unquiet mind by kate redfield jamison, jiro dreams of sushi, searching for sugar man, the killing, spicy food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
macbook, coffee, a view, change, bed, camera.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
doing good and finding love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing something
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
love, actually.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- you are not afraid of ___________
- you don't think being a community organizer is kind of like being a small town mayor in alaska
- you like the idea of home-steading but don't actually want to do it for life

"The most beautiful people we have known are those that have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen."