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My self-summary
Welcome to my OKC Chez G. Thank you for visiting. Please make yourself at home. Sit here, please, if you like, in this comfy chair. I’ll take your coat...and shoes, please. Can I get you something to eat or drink, please?

What great things do I offer to a strong, beautiful, loving woman…if she wants them?

Genuineness, the real me

Romance. I am a guy who brings a single rose, writes a card, or leaves sweet messages

Attentiveness. I am very responsive. My phone for you is 24/7. I respond ASAP.

Chivalry to the point that you desire. I will gladly open doors and take your hand. I will walk on the left side, except when I need my better ear closer to you.

Fun and playfulness --- whether we are at an event, watching TV, on a walk, or playing monopoly

Honesty, I do not lie. I have no poker face.

Giving, I will share all that I have with you to the best of my ability. I wonder.

Companionship. It might be one of us Reading to the other. It might be just watching TV together. It might be being good to you when you are well and taking care of you, when you are sick.

Affection. I am extremely touchy feely. I share that with you, as you like.

Love and adoration. I think this goes with the romance.

A partner in crime and a partner in life. There are many adventures we can share. I will gladly support you in your areas of life. I will also invite you into mine.

Sentimentality. I cry tears of joy sometimes. I remember birthdays, anniversaries and special dates and things.

Spiritual self development. I hope always to grow. I will share it with you, as you like.

Sense of humor. I know all the old jokes…and more! I am an accomplished Toastmaster.

Wonderful arm candy. I am very charming and supportive.

Sensuousness. My aim is to bring you to new heights. Again, this is part of the romantic in me.

I can be a good devil’s advocate, Number one supporter, or source of ideas and inspiration.

I lived in SF my first 10 years and San Jose, the Capital of the Silicon Valley, the rest. I did return to SF for a year 3when I worked for KQED.

I am:

 Straight

 Landmark Forum graduate (Jan, 2010)

 Tri-lingual

 Bay Area native, man

 Degreed (Political Science, Spanish Major, SJSU)

 Politically active - a flaming-red-liberal, yellow-dog-democrat

 Spiritual, I call myself a New Age Catholic

 Involved in the Silicon Valley business, arts, social service, and service club communities. It is hard for me to go somewhere in this valley and not know someone there.

 I am a politically active, flaming-red-liberal, yellow-dog Democrat

I will really be happier if we could enjoy each other’s worlds.

My professional background is in social service, PR, fund raising, marketing and sales. I have a history of men's work. I love the arts. I am Past San Jose Jaycees President and founder of their Foundation. The That Chapter presented me the highest award worldwide in Jaycees, a JCI Senatorship.

I am Past Toastmasters Area Governor and Toastmaster of the Year; I am a Past San Jose Parks and Recreation Commission Vice Chair.

I am a Cursillista and a New Age Catholic. Ask me what that means, please, when we talk or meet.

Thank you for your kind consideration. Please come back to visit my home soon. Better yet, please jet me a message.

With much love, I remain...until I hear from you again...

G Man G

PS This could be a lot of fun. Who was it that said “Kid, this could be the beginning of a great relationship!”?
What I’m doing with my life
I’m discovering the next period of my life in career and relationship.

I’m Continuing on the personal development and men's work which I have been doing for a couple of decades.

I’m Enjoying public activities across the valley

I’m Being ready when you sweep into my life
I’m really good at

Pleasing the special lady in my life

Remembering special occasions and doing nice things for her.

Big smile

Bright happy radio voice to welcome you

I love to touch and be touched

Back, foot, neck rubs and more

Brightening your day

Making people laugh


Organizing winning events

Eating, drinking, having fun

Public speaking

Speaking French and Spanish

Organizing a database

Telemarketing management

Schmoozing and partyhing


More will be revealed…
The first things people usually notice about me
Big smile
Bright happy radio voice to welcome you
I love to touch and be touched
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
MUSIC: Barbra Streisand and Bette Midler first; Andy Williams, Grass Roots, Raspberries, Johnny Horton, Willie Nelson, Mac Davis and MORE

BOOKS The Burnished Blade, The Secret...MORE

FOOD Pork chops with mashed potatoes, Asparagus with side of mayo, peas or green beans, Kahlua Cream Cheese Pie, Fortino Almond Champagne

Crab, Lobster, Cat fish, Trout, Salmon

Beef. It’s what’s for dinner!

Spinach, watermelon, avocados, tomatoes


TV West Wing, (ADDICT!), Commander in Chief, That 70’s show, Wonder Years, King of the Hill, Frasier, King of the Hill, China Beach, Thirty Something, The Wonder Years I have not had a TV in my place for almost a decade. My next place, for which I now search, will have one

MOVIES Patton, Time after Time, The Dark Knight, The Game, Great Escape, Escape to Eden, Love Story (I cried!), Fried Great Escape, Shape of Things, Tomatoes…MORE

PLAYS To be listed
The six things I could never do without
My spirituality, Jesus the Living Christ in my heart, self development and interest in the goddess

The lady who will come into my life (You, Miss?)

My close circle of friends and associates

Being a Liberal Democrat

Speaking Spanish and French

The opportunity to give back to my community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What is next in my life?

Spirituality (Jesus and personal development

You --- what you are doing, where you are, and what you are wearing right now?!
On a typical Friday night I am
Typical, what is that?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Oh, yeah, like I’m going to spoil the surprise for you here!
You should message me if
You are titillated by my profile, pictures and/or questions

You want to blow this stark two-dimensional pop stand for a real conversation, meeting, or date

You want to message me, even just a little bit!