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im 1/2 cherrokee 1/4 italian, and 1/4 irish. ive got long dark curly hair, curves, a great smile, big brown eyes. im a very classy woman thats how i was raised. i just had my first son on jan 4th 2008...so im not really looking to date...but i dont mind talking to yall unless you get disrespectful...i was raised up a lady and thats how i act..

First Corinthians - Chapter 13:4-8

4. Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8. Love never fails. Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies. Proverbs 31:10

that means a woman of strength and i believe for all that i have been through i am a vituous woman. A godly woman is rare and very hard to find. The same could be said for the godly man. Number one on the endangered species list is the homosapien godlicus: "Help, LORD; for the godly man ceaseth; for the faithful fail from among the children of men" (Psalm 12:1). There are hardly any such creatures around and the few that do exist will eventually die out! May God in His infinite grace and mercy be pleased to raise up godly men and women in these difficult and trying days.

A virtuuous woman is: Described in Proverbs chapter 31. SHE IS LOYAL (Proverbs 31:11). SHE IS A HOME MAKER (Proverbs 31). SHE IS HARD TO FIND (a rare gem) (Proverbs 31:10). SHE IS PRECIOUS (Proverbs 31:10) SHE HAS INNER BEAUTY Heart attraction (Proverbs 31:30; 1 Peter 3:4). SHE WORKS WITH HER HANDS (a lovely life producing loving words) (Proverbs 31, many verses). SHE IS RIGHT WITH GOD (Proverbs 31:30). SHE ABIDES IN THE HOME (Proverbs 31:27). SHE DOES HER HUSBAND GOOD (Proverbs 31:12). SHE IS RESTING AT NIGHT SO SHE CAN AWAKE EARLY (Proverbs 31:15). SHE BLESSES HER FAMILY (Proverbs 31:28). SHE LIVES BY LOVE (Proverbs 31:20).

yea i know this is suppose to be what im looking for but how can i find what im looking for if im not honest with myself... yea im a virtuous woman... and trying to get stronger everyday...

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I'm in school right now for paralegal studies. I'm a full time mommy but I plan on working again soon.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

I can catch on to just about anything quickly and I'm an adrenaline junkie haha so I'm pretty much down to try anything once. I'm a pretty good cook. But only a few special people have had the privilege to try my food. I can sing okay. Haha but there is so much more to me than what I'm telling. So message me to find out.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

Hair, eyes, smile, etc.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Wow so many... Just ask.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

God, My son My family My friends My phone Books

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

My son, My future, What I want to do in life, etc.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

It depends.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

That I'm widowed.

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Now dears don't be turned off that I have a list of what I believe I want in a man. I'm pretty lenient about them. I don't expect everything (though it would be nice).

Since the beginning of the year, (between feedings and diaper changes) I've been thinking about what I want in my life. More appropriately my love life. Now I can't quote many things in the Bible but some quotes that really have hit me lately say that the Lord gives us the "desires of our heart" (Psalms 37:4) and that "as a man thinketh in his heart, so is he" (Proverbs 23:7), so I see it if I'm going to find the man God wants me to be with I'm going to have to be specific with what i want. Last night and this morning I took the time to do so. I don't mind if you comment but if you have a suggestion for a man or you are a man who thinks he can fit the bill, please just email me about it instead of commenting. :) Thanks

1. He has to have a large amount of charisma. 2. He needs to have a quiet confidence, where he radiates confidence but stays humble and doesn't need an ego boost all the time. 3. He must be family oriented, hes got to love his family as much as I love mine. 4. He must be sentimental/romantic/sincere, I have a very tough exterior but at heart I'm a HOPEFUL romantic (thanks Ms. Pammie), and I think that if i let someone close (which it normally takes a lot for that to happen) they should respect me enough to not mess with my emotions and to be sincere. 5. He needs to be ambitious, as in hes got to have goals hes working on and should be constantly trying to better himself. 6. He has to have some sort of musical background. Music is my passion and I would love to be able to share that with him. 7. Hes got to treat me like a queen, but in return I would treat him like a king. I see it this way he should put me first. Now don't get me wrong I would never try to take the position of his family or friends but he shouldn't put so many other things ahead of me and our relationship. 8. Hes got to be intelligent. 9. All of my family has to approve of him. 10. He has to be a god respecting church going man, I mean he doesn't have to quote every parable but he should be able to enjoy church. 11. Hes got to have common sense and street smarts. 12. Hes got to have a decent job. ( I played momma for 2 and half years to a guy who wouldn't work and I wont do that again). 13. He can't be possessive or controlling but he also can't be aloof. 14. He needs to be taller than me. 15. He needs a legitimate job (as in its taxable). 16. He needs to stick to plans. I see it this way it he takes the time to make plans with me its only respectful to keep them unless its an emergency. 17. He needs to be patient and kind. Keep in mind I'm widowed with a newborn son. 18. He needs to be able to be emotionally supportive on my rough days. I don't break down a lot but I do have my moments. 19. Physically he must be strong. 20. He must be willing to communicate. I see it this way he should be able to be my best friend on top of being in a relationship with me. 21. He has to be loyal. I'm a one man type of woman and I expect him to have the same mindset towards me. 22. He has to keep things and himself clean. 23. He needs to be charming. 24. He has to make me laugh. 25. He needs to be somewhat of a homebody. I mean I don't mind him going out but not over doing it. 26. He needs to be mature but still at the right times have childish moments. 27. I'd prefer him not to smoke, I'm allergic and my son might be too. 28. I'd prefer him not to drink too much if he does drink. 29. NO DRUGS 30. He has to be a gentleman haha doors don't open themselves and chairs don't pull themselves out. 31. He has to be respectful. I see it this way, I'll treat him like the man in the relationship as long as he treats me like the lady. 32. When it comes to my son, he should never feel like its an obligation to raise him. Its a privilege. And if he leaves or disappoints my son just dont come back. 33. Hes got to be proud of me. I should know his friends and family because hes shown me off to them. 34. He needs to be somewhat protective of me. I can more than handle my own but I shouldn't have to when I'm around him. 35. Style wise hes just got to be comfortable. 36. He needs to be athletic. I plan on modeling again so fitness wise we should be able to help each other. 37. As much as I push him to be a better person, he should do the same for me. 38. Hes got to be understanding and wont get upset at Joe's memory . 39. He needs to like to cook. I'm a good cook but its nice to have a meal made for me. 40. WE HAVE TO BE EQUALS.

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