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ghosthrm

26 / M / straight / Single

Parsippany, New Jersey

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Asian
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6' 2" (1.87m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
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Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
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Income
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Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am dorky, awesome, and sweet.

My Self-Summary

I'm a 25 year young (who wants to say quarter of a century old anywho? hehe) american born asian, grew up in eastern/central MA, although not really your proto-typical asian type. Actually most of my friends have said I'm a pretty sh*tty asian. Pretty hard to be thought of as a typical asian when you go out for chinese food with friends and end up being the only one given training chopsticks! Oh also doesnt help that I'm six foot two. Should see me at a family reunion, I always expect to hear people start shouting. "Oh my god!! GODZILLA!". Well minus the scales and the fire breathing. Although that'd sure be a nifty trick :) I'm a total dork. I love science and love helping people. In one of the personality profiles I've taken I was described as "Consistantly taking care of others." And thats about as accurate as can be :)

What I’m doing with my life

Welllll, I was a lab rat for a long time. I swear I don't smell like cheese though! But really I'm a scientist. I've got a masters in cancer biology / toxicology. So when I say I'm a geeky dork. I actually have the papers to prove it! :P The long hours with little reward finally got to me though. I get a ton of satisfaction from knowing what I'm doing will help people down the road. Research was wonderful, but had so many dead ends and drawbacks. I decided on a career change. I'm now working on getting my clinical trial management certification to help push the next generation of life saving drugs through the market place. Much more gratifying!!

I’m really good at

Pretty much anything I put my mind to (assuming im not distracted by shiny objects). Not to toot my own horn or anything, (well maybe just a little!) but i'm a pretty shmart guy! I have a knack for achieving goals that I set for myself and I see things through to the end. One thing that I am especially skilled at is being a great friend. Whether its being someone to talk to, to make you laugh, to cry with you, or to just be there for you. That's pretty much me in a nutshell.

Oh as an aside I'm a reading machine. I can breeze through a good 700-900 page book in a night.

The first things people usually notice about me

A 6 foot 2 asian... Hmmm...Yeah... I tend to stand out in a crowd lol.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Yikes. Tv shows huh? Right now Heroes, HIMYM, House, Lost, Top Chef and CSI are on the top of my list. When it comes to music I listen to pretty much anything. I'm not much country, but I am a whole lotta rock and roll! I read a lot of sci-fi/fantasy. Recently I finished off the twilight series by Stephanie Meyer. I'm also a huge terry brooks and terry goodkind fan. Movies. Oh man don't get me started. When I was living with roommates they called me a one man blockbuster. I think i have something close to 1300 movies right now. Classics to slapstick comedies. I watch it all! Food. Well.. I'm an awesome chef :) I cook all types of foods. I can't say I'm picky at all, from burgers and fries to marakesh food I think I've tried pretty much everything. And yes... I LOVE sushi!

The six things I could never do without

Hum, friends, computer, tv, clean underwear and air (duh).

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The meaning of life. Haven't quite figured it out yet but I'm gettin there!!

On a typical Friday night I am

Bein my dorky self, at home or out with friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a double ear lobe! No one ever notices it at first but when they do they all tell me I should get them pierced. Still thinking about it!

You should message me if

You think dorks are hot and adorable~