Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i got my astrological chart done a few years ago and the astrologer
told me that i had the same chart that many monks have. what that
meant, he continued, is that i don't need to be around people just
to be around people and i'm totally content being on my own.
and that's pretty much true.
that being said -- i think i'm at the point in my life where i'm
really ready to find someone that'd be good for me and that I could
be good for.
a perfect third date for me is a night in with the intention of
watching a movie on the couch but instead we end up just talking
and watching random ridiculous stuff on youtube and the hours just
kind of melt.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
letting people know what's happening with us queers
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
knowing which of these questions to not fill out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
probably the tattoos.
my parents were dead set against them and then i turned 32 and
thought it's probably time to stop worrying about it.
i'm on a mission now.
don't read too much into them. or do. some of them mean something
(the ghost, the bees, the keys). some of them don't (the tooth with
a smiley face)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
angels in america. grimm's fairy tales. the house of mirth.
salinger's nine stories. shirley jackson's stuff. susan minot.
american psycho. story of o. handmaids tale. middlesex. poets: anne
sexton. sharon olds. adrienne rich. marie howe. margaret atwood.
dean young. daphne gottlieb.
kate bush. robyn. bat for lashes. phoenix. cocteau twins. bjork.
aimee mann. the smiths. the cure. lisa germano. peaches. kylie
minogue. the magnetic fields. xiu xiu. sky ferreira. marina &
the diamonds. class actress. depeche mode. nicki minaj. niki and
the dove. patty griffin. yeah yeah yeahs. rihanna. haim.
muriels wedding. dancer in the dark. the peanut butter solution.
legend of billie jean. clock watchers. drop dead gorgeous. party
girl. clueless. clue. romey & michelles highschool reunion.
teen witch. never let me go. fantastic mr. fox. don't tell mom the
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why guys on here write that they "love to laugh" and want to be
don't most people like to laugh? and a "surprise" is the last thing
i want when i'm meeting a stranger off the internet.
that being said, if, surprisingly, you can make me laugh, you're
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i'm really over the bar scene.
i like adventures but i also really like a night in.
i always think the guy i want to meet isn't at the bars on the
weekend, he's playing scrabble with friends in someone's living
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
when i was four i snuck outside in my underwear and did a (what i
thought was) seductive dance for the garbage man i had a ginormous
(a total romantic from the very start...)
also: dark water and outer space terrify me.
I’m looking for
- Guys who like guys
- Ages 28–40
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
(i know it doesn't work this way in real life but i guess if i
could build my own boyfriend...)
you're goofy. maybe a bit nerdy. but also hot shit (and -- to be
specific -- you're such hot shit that you don't feel the need to
tell people you're hot shit) and smart and funny and clever (but
not so smart and funny and clever that it's exhausting or
you're active but you're not obsessed with the gym and you'll still
eat a burger or half a box of cookies now and again and you're
happy pulling on a t-shirt in the morning and heading out the door
without spending twenty-five minutes in front of the mirror before
you head out said door.
you're fairly happy with your life but always looking for ways to
make it even happier. you think of others and put them before
yourself more often than not but you're also not afraid of a little
snarkiness (in fact, you embrace it) and think that most people are
miserable to put up with a lot of the time.
finally -- if you look like the garbage man i had a crush on when i
was a kid -- i will propose immediately.
Who are you looking for?
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