Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Just to be honest/up front, I'm in a committed open relationship
and I'm not looking for "just a hook up." Ideally I'm looking for
someone who I can hang out with, have fun going to bars, or
motorcycle rides, or whatever else we'll find that we enjoy
together, including the "other stuff". People tend to forget the
"friends" part of "friends with benefits", I don't.
So, what do I bring to the table? Well, to take that literally,
cooking is a big thing for me. The best Cuban food in NYC happens
in my kitchen, but so do many other cuisines. What's your
I also ride a motorcycle and am particularly passionate about it.
Upstate mountain escapes are fairly common for me!
I'm a computer geek (Linux), working in the field, and have a thing
for nerdy girls of any stripe. Whether it's compiling software from
source code, or geeking out about which Cylon skin-job is your
favorite, you're already up several points in my book.
I also DJ. I used to spin at clubs around town, but these days am
mostly doing burlesque shows. I'm into, in no particular order,
rockabilly, surf, punk, goth, industrial, old-school country,
old-school mambo, hip-hop, and more, just ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I started an IT services company. I love doing what I enjoy, and
being in control of the company and where we go makes it extra
exciting (and scary). NY is a great place for tech, so there's a
huge variety in the projects I get involved in.
DJing mostly for fun.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
See above. I am good at everything I'm passionate about. Not sure
which is the chicken and which is the egg.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'd left this blank for so long because it's hard to get a good
cross-section of what I'm into.
Books: It's been so long since I had time to read a book, too much
work, too much life. But the first books that come to mind are The
Three Musketeers, The Road to Wellville, Snow Crash, Fear &
Loathing in Las Vegas (Anything by HST, really), The House of Sand
and Fog. These days it's mostly tech manuals.
Movies: I love old school horror films, Like Romero and Argento. I
can get into a good modern horror as well. I like comedies,
anything WIll Farrell, Danny McBride, etc. Older stuff like the
early Zucker movies. Korean revenge movies are also high on my
Shows: Breaking Bad, Banshee, Battlestar Galactica, Lost (until the
final season), Portlandia, Southpark. And also, I can at any time
turn on a Law & Order marathon and spend hours stupefied.
Music: I guess I covered this above in the DJ section.
Food: Anything edible. Seriously, the list of things I don't eat is
short. I tend to eat healthier these days to try to take care of
myself. This usually means cooking a lot, but I enjoy that. But the
occasional splurge on a pizza or fried chicken is just as healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Everything I write here seems trivial. I guess I would say my brain
and my health, and anything else I can improvise. (I'm very
resourceful like that.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can fix whatever's wrong at any given time. I'm not a
complainer, I'm a fixer.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either to exhausted from the work week to do anything but stay home
and be passively entertained, or forcing a second wind and going to
a bar or restaurant (or both), or working the occasional gig.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're open minded, adventurous, smart and witty. If you have your
head together. You understand and are ok with the open relationship
thing. You can hold up a conversation about anything. You know, fun
Who are you looking for?
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