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ghwodghis

23 / M / gay / Single

Brooklyn, New York

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White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
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Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Scorpio but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Science / Tech / Engineering
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Kids
Pets
Languages
English, German, C++, Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am able-minded, sure-footed, and left-handed.

My Self-Summary

I eat more slowly than anyone you've ever met, but only because I'm too busy talking or thinking. I can only do one of the three at once.

I'm sort of splitting my time between NY and London (70/30 NY/London, or thereabouts) at the moment, though I'll be moving to London full-time in March. FYI.

What I’m doing with my life

Working for a software company. Wandering around. Lying in the park.

I’m really good at

Languages, software-ish things, getting shit done - I tend to be a pretty competent person.

The first things people usually notice about me

In London, they tend to notice pretty quick that I'm American. I look pretty English, and my name is extremely English, but I tend to give it away when I open my mouth...

In New York, I really don't know. I blend in pretty well.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: I like things that leave me unsettled and kind of lightheaded. Or like I've just been kicked. So - A Wild Sheep Chase, Haruki Murakami; White Teeth, Zadie Smith; Running with Scissors, Augusten Burroughs; The Line of Beauty, Alan Hollinghurst

Food: Recently, banh-mi.

Movies: All sorts. Nothing specific comes to mind.

Music: I usually have something playing, but rarely notice what it is. Or rather, I notice what it is, and I either mildly like it or mildly dislike it. So I'm hesitant to name favorites.

The six things I could never do without

Oh this is a ridiculous question.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I think about all sorts of things. Sometimes I think about clothes, or books, or whether I should get a haircut. Sometimes I think in German. Usually about how I spent four years and far too many credits learning German, and now I just think in it. Often, I'm reliving some particularly humiliating experience in my past. Or something I consider humiliating that no one else even noticed. When I've had one drink I think about the second, and when I've had two I think about the third. Ad nauseam. But never literally - I have an iron constitution.

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing typical Friday night things. Or atypical Friday night things. One of the two.

That's a snarky answer, I know. Sorry.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm an Eagle Scout. I even have the card to prove it.

You should message me if

Well, it would help if you're gay. And male. My criteria beyond that aren't well defined.