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29 M Portland, OR

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:14pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Trying to quit
Atheism, and very serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a big smile, a loud laugh, and an insatiable appetite for knowledge. I love a good pair of jeans and a sturdy pair of boots. I'm a critical thinker and a lover. I've developed a mature eccentricity far before my time. I need heat to survive.

I'm looking for someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously, but is serious about what they do. I'm looking for a burrito partner, someone to plan themed movie marathons with, a person I can have a conversation with over whatever might be in our cups. I like meeting people, especially when there's a spark. I'm not necessarily looking for a specific gender pronoun/type of relationship, though the above and below stats are pretty accurate.

I get out less often than I'd like, which makes initial real life connections a challenge.

ENFP, whatever that means.

I like to feel things out, which may at first seem to you like I'm shy, and you may not be wrong. My senses are important to me.

Peter Sagal once taught me to "choose the experience with the most anecdotal value." I try to follow that wisdom as closely as I can.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing. Meditating. Working out. Buying all the grey colored clothing I can find. Drinking out of the bottle. Reading magazines. Tending bar. Eating all the burritos. Daydreaming about the sun. Pacing around the room.

I'm taking a year off school before my undergrad program to publish things, write music, and, you know, live life. That sort of thing.

I write poetry and non-fiction. Sometimes I perform it in front of live audience.

I recently acquired a non-functioning motorcycle. Winter restoration project. West coast tour plans in motion.

Trying replace alcohol with books, which is tough since books are hard to drink and I tend to get very thirsty.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being incredibly idealistic. Dancing (see rhythmic flailing). Mixing drinks. Walking faster than Portland. Bar trivia. Biking long distances. Getting sleepy while reading a book. Being serious and silly. Cooking. Finding and adopting strange yet surprisingly functional pieces of wood furniture. Staying awake. Using too many tabs. Wiki-surfing. Losing things. Eating entire chocolate bars in one sitting. Eating in general. Taking naps. Consistently being late. Figuring shit out.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Right now:

Coeur De Lion by Ariana Reines. Underworld and White Noise by Don Delillo. Mayakovsky's Revolver by Matthew Dickman. Brief Interviews with Hideous Men by David Foster Wallace. Jitterbug Perfume by Tom Robbins. This weird book on transcendental meditation.

I want to live in the gap between Mac Demarco's teeth. Benjamin fucking Clementine: and FKA Twigs Duke Ellington and Herbie Hancock. Broken Social Scene. Elliott Smith. Shigeto. Flying Lotus. Big, emotional, beautiful music.

True Detective and a repeat sesh of Twin Peaks, Community

Steak, fish, bacon, greens, avocados, garlic, sweet potatoes. Burritos. Anything spicy. I'm currently in blood orange and brussel heaven.

This American 4 Life. iTunes U.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my bike(s) -Update: stolen :(
FOOD (especially fish)
things to write with and on
the internet
words to read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future.
How to save the world.
My cat.
The songs that I make in my head.
How things work.
How to waste less time.
Exactly how many OKC users list "the universe" and "sex" in this section. Relatedly, I also spend a lot of time thinking about how sexy the universe is.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Buried in books. Soul Night at the Eagles Lodge, cooking, eating out, riding my bike, pinballin', drinking expensive whiskey, sneaking beers into movie theaters.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I really don't have any secrets.
(My roommate confirms that this is the most telling part of my profile).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You enjoy riding your bike.
Your sense of humor ranges from goof to black.
You give a shit about something.
You want someone to cook for you.
You read more than you watch.