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gilarachel

35 Somerville, MA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–38
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:07am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Sagittarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
a man riding on the meaning of rivers
sang to me from the cloud of the world:
are you born?
are you born?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I write and teach writing and literature. I feel really lucky to have a fun and fulfilling job, and absolutely adore my students. I am also regularly writing and publishing.

I have a strong meditation and yoga practice that, along with nature, are major sources of unwinding and joy.

I am a foster parent for tiny kittens who are too small and young to be adopted. I usually have them for a few weeks to months until they are two pounds. They are precious and hilarious and an awesome perk to hanging out with me :-)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, being curious about people, all things related to food, feeling, knowing and expressing how I feel, speaking up, oh and just millions and millions of other things.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depends whether or not I'm wearing clothes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Plainwater - Anne Carson
Pedro Paramo - Juan Rulfo
The Next American Essay - Jon D'Agata
Maps to Anywhere - Bernard Cooper
Bluets - Maggie Nelson
Murakami
Jeanette Winterson
What the World Will Look Like When All The Water Leaves Us - Laura van den Berg
any poem by Robert Bly, Mark Strand, Mary Oliver.

I love love love to watch the likes of Louie C.K., Lena Dunham, and Sarah Silverman. TV: louie, girls, parks and rec, 30 rock, flight of the conchords, arrested development, modern family (in a pinch), and i may be one of the last few who still laugh at SNL.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Extra soft toothbrush
Organic Fuji apples
Good fresh air
adventure
meditation
writing
music
love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My students, my writing, whatever book I'm reading, how to make the most of this brief life, this world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
reading, eating with friends, out dancing, knitting (winter), swimming (summer), walking (springtime), lighting candles and reading (fall).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I reread my old journals.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are funny like Louie Ck. You are warm and wise and kind. You are passionate about and successful in some corner of the world, and are proud of the work you do/person you are. You are able to communicate openly. Creativity, spirituality, mutual inspiration are all wonderful things to have in common.
My ideal relationship provides intellectual stimulation as well as brain-bypassing passion and melting. One in which I feel I am with an equal - someone I can look up to and admire and also feel looked up to and admired by. Unflinching intimacy. Honesty. Affectionate, loving, sweet.