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37 M Tacoma, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:47am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a fun loving, polyamorous, intelligent, professional, and open-minded individual. I believe relationships can look many different ways and I think there are all kinds of connections in the world. I love music and I play guitar (although I am not great at it). I enjoy poetry. I just finished my first novel (currently in the editing stages). I love wine (red) and the Napa Valley region. Coffee is definitely something I enjoy daily. I am a great listener. I love to laugh. I do not like mushrooms or squash. I am gluten intolerant (no wheat products for me). I like hiking and the outdoors. The ocean has a special call for me. I am non-judgmental and I try not to take life too seriously. I value honesty and communication. I am not afraid to try anything once!
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a master's degree and I work in education. I hope to someday have my own restaurant or small business. I travel whenever possible during the summer.

I am constantly growing, learning, and changing. A quote I like is "a ship in the harbor is safe, but that is not what ships were meant for." Life is a journey best lived on open waters.

I am also striving to build community with those around me. If we work together to promote peace and love, we can make this world a better place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening to others, making people smile, computers, and throwing fun-filled theme parties!

I am also good at mixing drinks... one of my new favorites that I learned from my travels in Italy is called a "Spritz." Ask me about it sometime.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told I have a great smile and that I am very easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Lord of the Rings, The Stand, Tuesdays with Morrie, For Everything a Season, Inkheart, The Dark Tower, Lightning, Frankenstein, and any inspirational book (like Beetles & Angels, A Lesson Before Dying, Long Walk to Freedom, etc.)
Movies/TV: Snatch, Boondock Saints, Crash, Freedom Writers, Big Bang Theory, Batman Trilogy, The Matrix, Wedding Crashers, The Hangover
Music: Pearl Jam, Jack Johnson, Ben Harper, Amos Lee, Mumford & Sons, The Fray, Coldplay, and creating fun stations on Pandora
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
1. Cell Phone (with Google Maps app... I get lost easily!)
2. A companion to journey with (life is much funner with two!)
3. A good book
4. A bottle of red wine
5. Coffee
6. My Guitar
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to build community in today's world. I believe in helping others and making this world a better place. I value friendship, love, laughter, and good conversation. I think deeply and dream big.

I also think about things like what the theme of my next party should be, what to write next in the novel I am working on, and where my next location to travel will be.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With friends or family.... sometimes out on the town, sometimes at home with a movie and a glass of wine. It just depends on the week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Hmm... I guess that I am a deep thinker and not afraid to do things that are non-traditional.
You should message me if
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You are curious to find out more.

You are open-minded and fun.

You think we might have a connection.

Just because you want to!