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25 New York, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 23–30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 16
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Full figured
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Okay), Italian (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Living life, choosing to be happy, pursuing some dreams, seeking the best cheese in the world, and loving the amazing people in my life.

Hoping to find cool guys who aren't crazy, jerks, or conservatives.

Doesn't anyone just want to go on low key dates?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Singing, acting, attempting to dance for money. Hopefully not on a pole.

And looking for awesome happy hours and New York's best all night diner.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people laugh (occasionally at my expense), driving, baking amazing cookies, singing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
After a decent amount of time exploring online dating, the consensus seems to be my eyes. Thanks random internet dudes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Brave New World, 1984, Perks of Being a Wallflower, the John Rebus Novels, Dune

Parks and Rec, RuPaul's Drag Race, Buffy, Lost, the first four seasons of Dexter, Scandal, United States of Tara

I don't really have favorite movies. However up until I was 17 my favorite movie was Mulan and I'm always up for watching a bad sci-fi movie (unless it involves sharks) *just kidding, Sharknado was genius

Bratwurst, cheese, pears, wine, chocolate, horseradish flavored anything, tea, great barbecue, and I can't believe I forgot pizza
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Drag Queens
-Black tea with milk and sugar

And obviously my friends and family.

Annnnd picnics.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Good 16 bar cuts of songs, stories for cabarets, why beards are so cool, if I could ever take up running, whether 1984 or Brave New World is a more accurate end to the world
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I don't really have a typical Friday. Sometimes out, sometimes relaxing, sometimes seeing a show, sometimes rehearsing. *well now I work Friday working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not a very private person. I love answering questions. I will let you know that I have an irrational fear of indoor pools.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like going to concerts or shows (of any genre)
You know of a great restaurant
You could figure out a way to get me a job on Broadway
You are Ron Swanson (or Nick Offerman)
You've been featured on Instagram's @beardsandtats

Or just cause. That's nice too.