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64 / M / Gay / Single
- Last Online
- Today – 2:27pm
- 6′ 1″ (1.85m)
- Body Type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from two-year college
- Relationship Type
- Has kids
I am very happy with my life but it would be a lot better if I had someone to share it with. I currently live on a lake in NH and I enjoy the low stress here. I am currently self employed doing electrical contracting work. I do enjoy what I do and have always had jobs that I liked. I tend to be more optimistic and try to always have a positive attitude and I am rarely in a depressed mood and my friends say I am a stand up guy who is always there for them when they need a shoulder to cry on..
I was married for 9 years to a woman and I must admit it was not a great time in my life for me as I was a gay man in a heterosexual relationship. I knew I was gay from a very early age but did not explore those feelings until later in life. I believe in monogamy so I never even considered cheating on my wife. I have 3 wonderful boys and 2 grandchildren. I was in 2 relationships with men, one lasting for several years. I still get along with all of my family including my x wife’s family..
I, like many, am looking for my better half to spend the rest of my life with. I would expect him to be honest, caring, trustworthy, giving, dependable, someone who actually knows what monogamy means (as these are all qualities that I possess), and easy on the eyes (which as we all know is in the eye of the beholder) and I would expect him to share the good and the bad with me. I am generally attracted to younger mature men, usually late 30’s to early 50’s. I would like this person to be my best friend first. We should be able to discuss anything and support each other in good times and bad times. I am shy at first but once I get to know someone I open up. In my business life I am not at all shy and tend to be able to handle most situations professionally.
Although I enjoy sex it’s not high on the importance list. If one builds a relationship on sex then when it is no longer a priority, then the relationship tends to die as so many do these days. I would have to say that I am not very experienced in this area as I have not been with too many men in my life time. I was a late bloomer and actually did not come out of the closet until I was in my mid 40’s.
I have included a picture of me so it’s only fair for you to send one to me in the first email. If you don’t I probably won’t respond as a lot of times men are married and they don’t want to be found out.
And please if you are married or in a relationship of any kind I don’t break up relationships....so look else where...I am not judging you it’s just that I don’t swing that way,
I would like to thank you for reading my long winded profile and if any of this sounds interesting please feel free to send me an email, and finally the picture is me and its is what I currently look like, some say I don’t look my age….and I am a foster parent and if that's an issue please don't waste either of our time.
I guess we could live without almost anything except maybe love...family...health...food......
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- Ages 30–50
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- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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