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53 F Vista, CA

My Details

Last Online
Nov 1, 2009
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Trying to quit
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I am a 48 year old widow with a teenage son. I am on permanent disability, but am still able to do most things. I prefer a quiet lifestyle, focusing mostly on family, God, and helping others. I am looking for someone to grow old(er) with, now that my son is getting older and doing more on his own.

I am optimistic, lonely, and intellegent
What I’m doing with my life
Homeschooling my son. Working p/t caring for cerebral palsy patient. I try to keep busy helping others, although I am a very independent person. Trying to get a life of my own wince my son doesn't need me much anymore, and he's usually on his computer or video games.
I’m really good at
Not getting dates. I'm having a hard time getting back into this "meeting people" mode after losing my husband 12 years ago. It took a long time, but I think I'm ready to meet someone new now.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am very thin. I have a lot of self confidence. I know who I am and am not willing to change that to please someone else. This is who I am, and I'm happy with me. Take it or leave it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I think that the best book I ever read, besides the bible, is The Stand by Stephen King. I enjoy sci-fi and zombie movies. My favorite foods are coffee, fruit, espresso, shellfish, coffee, pizza, and coffee. Favorite music is John Denver, Phil Colins, 70' & 80"s music. No crazy rap or opera!
The six things I could never do without
God, my son, my cow collection, my meds, coffee, and coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
christian The condition of our world and all the suffering that is going on everywhere. How to pay 14 bills every month with a turnip and a hand full of magic beans! So far, it seems to be working!
On a typical Friday night I am
Breathing. Doing laundry, eating pizza, trying to get my son to finish his homework! Watching Stargate (if it's on).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am getting old(er) and don't want to spend the rest of my life alone. I am no beauty queen, but I'm not hideous, either. Not enough fat and too many wrinkles. I am disabled, even though I don't look like I am. I am still able to do most of the things I used to do.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 43–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I sound like someone you could get along with. It can't hurt to try.