I rarely get a msg on okc.  I chose not to put up a pic.  I would like for someone to have a conversation and then if we hit it off to proceed.

It sounds good but  ....

I finally put a picture up today .. and I had so many people trying to talk to me that my computer crashed several times. 

What does this say about us?

I have been called a few things lately. People love to label others. I think it makes them feel safe to be able to catagorize you and put you into a compartment.  I don't think that any of us will fit into those little holes quite as neatly as they like to think. Some try desperately to get out those little compartments while others think if that's the way the world sees me, maybe that's who I am.  

I have a few opinions that are not main stream. People try to label me because of them. I am more than a few opinions. On the other hand, I am not ready to change my opinions to make anyone else happier with me, or with themselves.

I believe that a man should be the head of the family. That if he loves his wife and children then either he will make the right decision for them as a family or do his best. Either way the wife needs to support him. A structure needs to exist.