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25 Oxford, UK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 2:57am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello there!
I'm Ash/Ashley, thanks for dropping in :P
I'm a gentleman, a nerd, a ginger and proud. I definitely come across a bit shy and awkward at first, but I think I open up quite well when I'm comfortable and become pretty silly.
I like to be as chivalrous as possible, it's a quality that seems a bit rare these days, I like to treat people with respect and kindness.
I'm a huge nerd and fall into most of the stereotypes that come with it, but I'm not the least bit ashamed!
I'm ginger....that should be fairly obvious ;)
I'm a little broken right now and my confidence is not at it's best, but I'm trying hard to fix these things. I have pretty bad anxiety, so finding someone to be patient, gentle and take things slowly is really important.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Experiencing the general confusion of being in my mid twenties without a clear goal or purpose. Wondering that, if I like cooking shows so much, why am I not cooking more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Over thinking everything.
Getting furious about ethical issues.
Hoarding too many books and games that I will never have time for..
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair I'd imagine. Apparently I have nice eyes and a silly smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Manga, comics, Tolkien, Dresden files, Pratchett, Rivers of London, Gaiman...
Movies: Marvel/DC, LOTR, The Hobbit, Ghibli, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, seeking a friend for the end of the world, star wars...
TV: Arrow, Grimm, Anime, Yogcast...
Music: The beetles, the kinks, mettalica, fleetwood mac, ELO, Foo fighters, David Bowie, funeral for a friend, pink floyd.
Food: Thai, malaysian, morocan, chinese, spanish, italian, japanese, chinese, indian.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Gaming PC
Fancy coat
Pepsi Max
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Equality. Fiction. Tasty food. Art. Colour combinations. Soppy romance. Answers to imaginary debates.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Delving into YouTube. Watching crappy Sci fi films. Sleeping after another under staffed week at work. Maybe socialising.
You should message me if
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Ideally, I'd like to meet someone honest and thoughtful. Physical looks don't mean too much for me, I don't mind thin or larger, personality means a lot more. A great smile is a must I think, something that can really brighten up my day. Having things in common would be great, but I'm happy to take an interest in anything that person is passionate about. I like being in nature but enjoy a beautiful city to. Just curling up together and reading, watching a film together of having a chat would be a dream