I enjoy board games, movies, crafts, exploring new places, finding hole in the wall places with interesting food or good beer or an awesomely unique atmosphere, cuddle piles, curling up to a good book, sharing a coloring book, planning for and camping at SCA wars, learning what makes people smile, and exploring new kinks. Currently my latest hobby has been practicing with my whips and poi. I'm trying to get good enough with the poi that I can use fire poi, but I need to get to the point that I am not smacking myself in the face with them before that happens.
I am a pleasantly plump girl. Zaftig even. I love myself, but am looking to be healthier. If you are looking for a friend to do some active stuff together, hit me up! It's always better when you got company. I do have a 24 hour fitness gym membership if that matters. Though I haven't been in forever. I hold the disclaimer that I'm not particularly good at any sports or exercise. But I'll likely try it.
I am happily married. I don't hide anything from my husband or other partners. We are ethically non-monogamous. It is important to me that anyone I get emotionally involved with have a mutual respect. I do not like putting people on some hierarchal scale of worth to me. I don't like the things it insinuates or how it makes people feel. I need strong open communication, trust, and respect, and I am full of compersion.
I am not looking for any specific gender, ethnicity, size, age, etc. I just don't have enough awesome people in my life. I want to find people who positively effect me. Who I can have a positive impact in their lives. I want to build strong connections, and see what dynamic organically develops from there. I can be a friend, lover, sister, muse, penpal, whatever fits. What I am not interested in is being a notch on someones bedpost, being a superficial acquaintance (I have enough of those), or being around someone who is toxic to my life.
I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL ENCOUNTERS. If you just want sex or some kinky fantasy played out with a stranger, I'm not the girl for you. No judgement here, it's just not my interest. If you message me asking my kinks before even caring what my name is, you will not get a response.