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gingham_slap_cut

42 M Melbourne, Australia

My Details

Last Online
Aug 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Working on university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
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I have a life full of people I love, personal goals, and interests. I have a spiritual element to my life more tied up in production of art, music and lifestyle than anything. I'm also very practical and rational when I need to be-

I am an evolving being, who is open to new ideas. I am interested in people, what they have to say, what they can offer and what I can offer them. I am open to all sorts of relationships, from the meaningless to the most meaningful. I can be a deep thinker at times, but remain playful, charismatic and interested in my demeanor.

I am active, intuitive, sexual and in tune with serendipity, which is to say I am always on the lookout for the markers/ moments I can give meaning to. I tend to run with these.

-someone wrote to me and questioned a comment i had made about "looking for people who were over being defined by a scene" perhaps they took offence, became defensive, or perhaps they were simply interested in what I thought. either way here is my response - I got the feeling I was writing this to myself more than anything but anyway..... I thought Id share it with anyone who may be interested

" I 'KNOW' for a fact what the problem with our society is. Knowing what this problem is, and having been a part of said society all my life gives me an opportunity to either a) continue being unhappy whilst all my hopes and dreams, passed down to me from generations of humans taught to look outside themselves for happiness, continue to disappoint me - "whats next ? become bigger / make more friends / do well in school / beat others / rise to the top / get a job/ a better job/ a better car/ a girlfriend a better girlfriend / more money etc etc - all these things are outside 'yourself'
b) look at the facts - I am not entitled to anything in particular .... I am born with a body that works when I breathe, add fuel , thinks and experiences. If I continue to pay attentiion to what my body/ mind experiences I truly live - That is the most that we can hope to accomplish in a life - to truly live.... if i live and i'm attentive to my self .... and I am still unhappy .... I can focus on whats making me unhappy because I am 'aware' of whats making me so - then it is up to me to make myself happy

Believing/knowing this does however exclude me from the possibility of being blissfully unaware of the problem or that I am a part of it (however common this condition might be)

in case you're thinking of asking - This has nothing to do with God or anything like that. I am happy because I have become aware that I am the only person that can make me so.

I dont run away from anything unless its chasing me or it'll do me harm
Your self is always important - if its lost importance its because one has travelelled too far from it and its lost in the fog of a modern existence we don't need
I wake up every morning and Im a day older.... a day surer of myself .... a day further from the fear that I don't have 'enough'.
Nothing forces you to stay in a shitty job, a shitty relationship, or give up and be come entrapped - children can be a burden or a blessing. People can enrich us or drain us.

Still mostly I believe what you give out from your self comes back to you.... if its acceptance, empathy , compassion, love that is what will come back..... if you are negative , youve given up and you dont want to find yourself under all the @#$% then thats what people will see and they wont be interested and noone will invest anything good in you and you surround yourself with #$%^ - That's speaking from experience "
What I’m doing with my life
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I book bands for a prominent Melbourne venue on Tuesday and Wednesdays every week of the year since 2003. I host the show, market, co-ordinate and hand pick acts for the stage, ensuring everyone knows their place. Feedback is part of my job, and I love to be involved with people on a personal level, reveling in the culture of music and the arts.

I live above a shop, and daily take a walk with my dog Burt after my morning coffee!

I play in a band, music is a passion for me since ever. I'm lead singer in my band, i also play guitar, piano, clarinet and f*** around on the computer. Playing on stage is a thrill.

Im involved with a st kilda based sporting club and I love it. I love yoga but to be honest have not done it so much of late.... Looking forward to getting back into it.

I recently did a 1 year Visual arts course incorporating photography, printmaking, paintng, drawing, ceramics and video art. It was awesome and I continue to practice.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
engaging other's attention, conversation, making people feel at ease, enjoying your ideas, taking control & relinquishing control, bedtime activities, enjoying my own company, eating food (i love food!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile. my energy. my eyes. my arms. my shoes...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
intelligent comedy, suspense, thriller, horror, porn, cult / alternative

Fight Club - Harold and Maude - dogs in space - bad boy bubby - he died with a falafel in his hand-
I wont list a million movies but i could
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
music, chocolate milk, discussion, love, sex, sleep
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the ways of the world, people, love, sex, art, concepts
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
sitting at home talking to my dog eating take away with a beer :-)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I talk to my dog... and myself
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...your currents run a little deeper than most people.
....you at least have an interest in music and art.
....you are capable of loving someone other than yourself
....you are over being defined by a scene
...you are your own person