Gullible, funny (but this is strange to me because I usually have no idea that I've just made an insanely funny joke until people around me laugh), kind, sensitive, demanding, generous, conscientious (to a fault?), Self aware, open, communicative, hardworking, wary/untrusting, narcissistic, nurturing, weird, creative.
A few of those Meyers-Briggs style online tests have told me that I am this:
INFP (Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Perceiving)- "Questor". High capacity for caring. Emotional face to the world. High sense of honor derived from internal values.
When things are balanced in all aspects of my life, I feel best.
I like dates at parks or museums rather than movies or restaurants.
I hate being cold.
I'm not much of a drinker.
Philly is pretty great, but I often wonder if this is really where I belong. I might try another city or two or four before I decide where I really want to be.
Taller-than-me-guys are more my preference, but I'm open. Fitness and care with eating habits are important to me. I want to live as long as I can and feel as good as I can while I'm alive, and I would hope that someone I was with would want to be around for as long as they could too.
I tend to take life and my work very seriously. I don't understand when people write "I try not to take things too seriously..." Why wouldn't you, you are alive, this is it. I understand not putting too much pressure on one's self, but, I strive to do the best that I can each day. I'm doing what I love, and I do it with all due seriousness.
Making jewelry- art.
Poetry: Sylvia Plath, Ranier Maria Rilke, Walt Whitman.
Music: Beck, Bjork, Jack White. Anything live and acoustic- jazz, bluegrass, I have a weakness for drum circles (just watching, and listening...They are at the park all the time.)
Food: Indian, Thai, Vietnamese, Korean, Mexican, anything spicy. I like Vegetarian and Vegan food, but I am not committed, and I'll eat meat when I feel like I need it.
ROSENCRANTZ AND GUILDENSTERN ARE DEAD
A note about TV and video games, I'm not a fan...but only because I get sucked in and I feel like there's way too much real life out there to experience (the girl typed into her online dating profile...). When there is a tv around, especially if there is cable...I can just sit down and waste time away, and that's not how I like to spend my time.
Netflix, though...sometimes I will put something on netflix before I go to sleep. Somehow I don't really feel that counts as TV...because I can watch what I want when I want... and there are no commercials.
A warm place to sleep
A hair pin or tie or pencil/pen
A place to be alone when I need to be
food, water, shelter, safety...
Hypothetically, If I fall in love with a man who is older than me (which, right now, I prefer), he will probably die first and I will be alone when I am old (which I dread). However, If I fall in love with a younger man (who always seem immature to me), we will probably die around the same time, because women tend to live longer than men. And, which scenario bothers me more?