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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27-35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 5, 2013
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I would describe myself as an onion - multi-layered and mult-faceted... and like that grade school brat that would pull on your pigtails during recess, I just might make you cry! =P

OK, running with the onion analogy... On the exterior, I may come off as a boring Mr. Nice Guy -- serious, monotone, seemingly lacking in personality -- but only to project a professional work image. Peel away that layer, and you'll find Joe Cool, strutting his stuff with pizzazz & flair to Latin music at a salsa club. Unwrap that layer and you may run into the comdedian/jokester/goofball, poking fun at you at YOUR expense =P. Underneath that layer, a competitive jock with an edge may be revealed -- I've caught myself letting out a primal grunt or two after acing an opponent with a 100-mile-an-hour serve or rejecting an opponent's shot on a dribble penetration. But if you are able to finally reach the core, you'll find a genuine nice guy, a gentleman and a sentimental schmuck.

I am a self-proclaimed LaChino--that is, while I'm 100% Chinese, I believe I must have been Latino in a former life, as I have a profound passion for the language, culture, music, and esp. dance.

I take great pleasure in shocking people. As I mentioned before, in the office, my colleagues see me as a serious, boring, prim & proper, personality-less "nice guy". So when I dressed up as "Da Ladieth Man" and performed a salsa number/skit -- *in character*, complete with the bling and 'fro -- in front of 4,000 of my colleagues as part of a talent show, their jaws dropped and many could not stop talking about it for days on end. While I am not one who craves for/seeks the limelight, I know how to handle it when the opportunity arises.

I'm looking for someone to complement one another, to inspire, support, and encourage each other to be more than we could ever be as individuals. Someone who has a passion or multiple passions in/for life and has a purpose in life. I value compassion, integrity, communication, open-mindedness, thoughtfulness, challenges, growth, self-improvement, a sense of humor, witty banter, and seek the same in a partner.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going after my dreams and paying the necessary price for it. Working hard and in the process of building a blossoming business.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
1) pulling people's chain with a straight face
2) guessing people's height to the inch
3) noticing and remembering the little things/details... some useful, some not
4) remembering the names of people I just met. As a party trick, I can say goodbye to everyone by name (record so far is about a dozen)
5) delaying gratification
6) understanding all Asian accents perfectly
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my height & my RIDICULOUS good looks (with or without the Blue Steel look)!! @_@ LOL
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
let's save this for a live conversation...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:

* family & friends
* hope & optimism
* humor
* freedom of choice
* adequate sleep
* good eats
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my career/future--why I'm doing what I'm doing, the kind of life I want to lead, the impact I will make on the lives of others, and the kind of person I want to be remembered for...

Or why I can hit a kick/twist serve but not a simple slice serve? Ugh...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Beware... I can be a grammar/spelling/punctuation nazi!

I can wiggle my left ear in isolation or both ears, but not the right one alone... very strange... hey, a silly question deserves an equally silly answer!
You should message me if
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You can incorporate the words 'plausible deniability', 'immunity', and 'going dark until the job is done' in a conversation in real life and make it sound natural. Yet another silly question!