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girl812

31 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 7:40pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 1″ (1.55m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
“If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you wont give up. If you give up, you're not worthy. Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.” -Bob Marley

And my second favorite quote..

"A real woman can do it all by herself, but a real man won't let her." LOVE IT!!

Me:
-Extremely ALIVE, Fun, Electric, Adventurous
-Can pump it up or keep it low-key, all depends on the night.. Both are equally enjoyable with the right company.
-Progressive. Always pushing the boundaries for the sheer exhilaration of it.
-Great sense of Self, know what I love/value and live passionately in honor of it
-Very fit and energetic. Love being active/outdoors.
-an Artist at the Core/LOVER of the Arts, Culture, the World, People, Animals, Life & all the infinite details of the magical Universe we live in.
-value fitness/wellness IMMENSELY
-LOVE food, although i'm a small eater in any one sitting.. i'm a gourmet cook and LOVE cooking too:)
-completely authentic and direct as it gets. value time/energy too much to live any other way.
-incredibly feminine and enjoy being a woman to the nines!
-professional vocalist/songwriter/actress/writer, currently focusing on music (metal/hard rock) and book projects.
-down to earth and VERY playful/mischievous ;p
-highly aware of & in tune with self, others & the world around me.
-Very Free. Full of JOY:D
-Incredibly loving, warm, supportive and sensual, LOTS to give to the right man AND completely able to receive as well.
-very aware of the present moment and live it FULLY while being anchored in my longterm vision.
-the funnies are a GINORMOUS part of my human experience, i see the comedy in everything, whether its sheerly a mundane earthly comedy, a cosmic chuckle, or a genius melange of both:D
-and oh how deeply i love and appreciate a Good MAN! Whether there is a romantic connection between him and i or not.. of course i would love it all the more if there genuinely was one, too:)

My ultimate partner:
-a MAN who has his shit together (very "in touch" with his inner boy but not run by it alone)
-awesome energy and a great attitude
-Progressive- you HAVE a purpose of passion in your life to which you wake up excited to chisel that much further on MOST days;)
-authentic and honest
-have the body of an athlete and live the healthy, strong lifestyle behind it (on most days), value fitness/wellness IMMENSELY. if you are a great cook and love cooking thats a major plus!
-are a true Warrior in character, courage and integrity
-don't take yourself too seriously, have a great sense of humor and a WARM HEART!!
-are not desperately looking for Love but are OPEN to Love where it genuinely is... aka "emotionally available"
-enjoy the arts with a truly open heart and mind, whether you're in that field or not.
-have VISION and Spirit! you initiate uncommon adventures/moments, whether "grand or small"..
-have a genuinely strong sense of your authentic Self and are happy exploring/experiencing new things inside n out
-have FUN being a MAN and OWN it joyfully/effortlessly- romantically and sexually! chivalry is NOT dead, not in my world!

Where I'm At: Until the above man shows up and we choose to take on the world together, I'm simply looking to enjoy meeting new people and have wonderful moments! Wherever it leads from there will be obvious in the energy between us.. We'll either become friends, lovers, work partners in some capacity, or simply remain passing acquaintances who had a great moment once upon a time. In the very rare instance where there IS a genuine romantic connection between me and a man, YES, I would be very happy and explore that fully, develop what may. I'm not scared of a beautiful relationship and in fact, would LOVE one if the feelings and the compatibility are there. So on the off chance that there may be a "spark," if you're a "runner" or emotionally unavailable, please run NOW, before we have met lol. THANK YOU:) Also, I'm SURROUNDED by the opportunity for cheap thrills every day and everywhere I go... perhaps this makes them less intriguing to me, but the bottom line is, NO, I'm not interested in cheap thrills, sexually or otherwise. It's just not what I value.

Not at ALL in to chats, emails, texts or long phone convos in an attempt to get to know someone. Im very comfortable meeting people, I do everyday! SO if you like my profile and ALSO match up with what I'm looking for, then go on n message me:D I may bite but if i do, you'll probably like it lol;p Coffee, tea, a drink, dinner or whatever works.. what matters is meeting in person cuz the energy is in the live MOMENT and nowhere else. Reach out if you resonate with what I wrote and agree on meeting up front. Cheers! And happy trails;p
What I’m doing with my life
Singing, Acting, Writing, Loving, Living, Learning, Growing, Celebrating it!
I’m really good at
singing, writing, acting, cooking, anything arts, teaching, training, coaching, fitness, nutrition, people, and too many too list beyond that, get to know me.
The first things people usually notice about me
my physical prowess and the electricity of my Presence/Spirit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
there is no way to answer this question! it would be a novel. we can talk about it in person lol
The six things I could never do without
my voice recorder, the arts (specifically music, film and comedy), my loved ones, the best food, my animals, a notebook n pen
I spend a lot of time thinking about
life, truth, love, humanity, Spirit's infinite genius (not religion), success, unifying people through self-connection, good food, great people and artists, how unspeakably grateful i am for everything and everyone that has ever been a part of my magic carpet ride, how beautiful people are, how sad it is that they dont see it, and how i can show them through my work and my presence, sexuality, getting more organized lol, how much i love my work and how amazing it is going to feel when i get to share it with millions of people all over the world, and lots of other things too haha.. im an artist, i have an active imagination!
On a typical Friday night I am
watching bill maher with my family over a lovely home-cooked meal far away from the madness of friday night outings lol, OR, ALL UP IN THAT MADNESS in some way or other:P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
people who are exhilarated and unafraid in life and with me put the biggest smile on my face:) at the same time, i have become slightly disillusioned by how rare it is to meet people who are genuinely like this:( i wish people were more actively brave, honest and open-hearted. on a lighter note, i pee in the shower lol.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 27–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
* you get THIS: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=10Pmeafeqyw&feature=player_embedded
* you know yourself and are passionate about your life and what you're doing with it
* you are FUN, have a good open attitude and a good sense of humor, if you can crack me up you have probably won my heart lol:D
* you are sharp and aware of the world inside and outside of you
* you are close with your loved ones in healthy, supportive relationships
* you love animals, children and art
* you are in the MUSIC and/or FILM industry on any level