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39 San Francisco, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 37–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Mar 8
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Post grad
Wants kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Italian (Somewhat), Chinese (Fluently)
My self-summary
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carpe diem
live free or die!

having grown up here in the bay area, i feel very fortunate to have been raised here. i've lived in many different cities, states, and countries, but like it the most here.

i love the ocean and traveling. always wanna be snorkeling, sailing, surfing, swimming, kayaking, any water sport really. i also like driving fast cars, tennis, riding my bike, pilates, funny movies, bad jokes, spending time with friends and family and assembling furniture and eating bananas.
What I’m doing with my life
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i've been an elementary school teacher and literacy acceleration/intervention teacher for the past 10 years, and was almost always at work or working. but i've left the classroom for more work/life/balance and to write a book. definitely feeling more relaxed and happy! not waking up at 6am everyday is the best.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
languages, working with kids, traveling, and driving stick shift. i've also thrown a few good parties in my time. i think i can read people well... i'm good at getting people to laugh or to feel comfortable.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my positive energy. i'm pretty outgoing and like to talk with people and connect. one friend said i usually see people's strengths, not their weaknesses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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books: all bukowski, me talk pretty one day, the prophet, eat pray love, blink. chelsea handler.

food: mostly all food but especially smoothies, sushi, seafood, pho, good pizza...

music: the avett brothers, iron and wine, julieta venega, neon indian, mike snow, cut copy, basement jaxx, celso pina, gomez, manchester orchestra, bob dylan, joni mitchell, danny the wild child, keane, big business, mos def, pavement, wilco, guster, three dog night, supertramp, bon jovi, breakbeat buddha, disiz la peste, the black crowes, obituary, overkill, op ivy, secret machines, my morning jacket, m.i.a., modest mouse, system of a down, lady sovereign, neil young, weezer, lionel richie, lou reed, flaming lips, dire straits, mickey avalon, built to spill, bloc party, cat stevens, 50 cent, jawbreaker, jimmy cliff, journey, mana, michael jackson, pixies, pretenders, spoon, vampire weekend, MGMT, jah cure, snoop, social distortion, tom petty, sublime, tribe, wyclef... i like most music.

movies: idiocracy, beer fest, bad teacher, walk hard, zohan, blood diamond, grandma's boy, jackass 2, white dragon, i'm not there, watchmen, f for fake, tropic thunder, blue jasmine

shows: eastbound and down, californication
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my family and friends
ambition and meaningful work
the ocean and beaches
good sleep
lots of water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to eat. when i can't sleep i seem to think about everything under the sun. i think about power relations a lot, and how to change things for the better.

What Lévi-Strauss had called the poignancy of things – implied the faculty of communion with things, of entering into them, of being them for a moment. It was normal that in their turn they should be like us: perishable and immortal. -Chris Marker
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out with friends. it totally varies.
You should message me if
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if you're funny, genuine, take care of yourself, and are adventurous.