I'm an INTJ who's good at coming across as an extrovert. I really enjoy going to social events and working with people but also value staying in and relaxing.
A few important things you should know:
1-I have a grammar fetish. The better your grammar/spelling, the sexier I find you. Using things like "bc" instead of "because", "u" rather than "you" or not using periods/commas are ladyboner killers for me. (Not trying to say I have perfect grammar/spelling! I just like when a basic amount of effort is put into messaging me)
2-I am a left-wing, feminist, sex-positive person who doesn't think 100% monogamy is necessary for every relationship.
3-I'm a morning person who prefers to have more plans during the day/early evening than late at night.