That being said.....
I am not looking for a match...... I am looking for a fire.
(I admit, I borrowed that line with permission from nyc11102man, but I love it!)
Don't just message me because you see "bi" on my profile. It's actually a very small part of my life. OKC has very limited options for sexuality. I'm more "heteroflexible" and "heteromantic" than bisexual. What that means is that I will occasionally enjoy sex with a woman, but am only interested in romantic relationships with men.
I've led a vanilla life for most of my 48 years. Lately, I've started breaking out and embracing my hedonistic side. I'm interested in meeting a man who is open to exploring with me. I want to explore many facets of sex and kinks and my sexuality and I want to be with you to explore yours. I'm not looking to explore hardcore kinks, but at least some of the lesser ones. I'm NOT looking for an open relationship or a poly relationship. I'm NOT looking for casual sex. I AM looking for a connection that has the possibility of leading to something long term.
Now that that's out of the way... I'm much more than my sexuality. Read my questions. I work, I travel, I eat, I drink, I read, I go to movies, concerts, shows, events.... The usual stuff.. And I'd like to do that stuff with someone special. I enjoy photography, intrepid travel; I'm looking into taking scuba lessons; I'm always in the planning stages of a trip to somewhere off the beaten path.
I prefer men who are assertive, not passive or submissive. I like a man that can make a plan; this applies to life, not just sex. The most annoying question in the world to me is, "I don't know. What do YOU want to do?"
Please skip to the bottom before messaging me and make sure I actually want to hear from you. Those are my "hard limits" down there.