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givemearrow

51 / M / Gay / Seeing someone

New York, New York

His Details

Last Online
Feb 6
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
"Connect over coffee?" is not a hook up line. Guys who are humble but direct, low maintenance, passionate in and out, and attitudelessly gay are attractive.

I have recently moved to NYC from the DC area for inspirations in various aspects of my life. Yes, I have a decent perspectives in life and I am always open to learn more. Being an entrepreneur, I am also an artist/painter currently pursuing for a graduate training. Occasionally I approach guys here for modeling for my painting/drawing without any hidden agenda but with good stories to tell.

I stay active, grounded and humble. I make mistakes. I judge but leave behind my judgment the moment I realize. I am passionate about what I do, fun, playful, engaging and interesting to be with. I can carry on any conversation while making a good connection.

I enjoy having a variety of projects (preferably joint but not must) from home improvements and landscaping whenever possible to arts and business, exploring new places and meeting new people, going to gym, traveling far and taking day trips, going to flea markets looking for props to paint, having conversations about: life, philosophy, socioeconomics, politics, religions or no-religion. I really like spending time cooking together, going to movies, flea markets, farmers market, exploring this big city and small towns around it.

It's definitely ideal if we connect physically, emotionally and intellectually and share a lot of interests. To bond in relationship with full self expression and be supportive to each other is my agenda.
What I’m doing with my life
Entrepreneurial pursuits.

Currently I am pursuing my passion in art/painting and applying for a graduate program while keeping my furniture retail business. For many years, I had a software consulting business.
I’m really good at
Analyzing ...
Opening up to people...
Making a connection...
The first things people usually notice about me
Some think I am Korean. Few think I am Japanese. Once in a while they think I am Irish lol, but all seem to agree that I appear warm and inquisitive aside from not having blue eyes ... :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Very bad with names and titles.

Love "big bang theory".

Books: god is not great...

Music: 80s, ABBA, depeche mode, OMD, current new electronic - they sound like the 80s English groups (check out Cut Copy and Passion Pit), show tunes, various soundtracks - schindler's list, cirques de soleil... classical - itzak Perlman, Carmine burana...

Food: anything spicy, Indonesian, Thai, Korean, Cuban, Italian, Iranian, Indian, Chinese (schezuan), polish, Japanese, American steak n BBQ, any home cooking, salad with wasabi dressing.

Movies: chic flicks:), scifi, My architect -documentary (Louis Kahn), beautiful movies, period movies...

Shows: musicals and willing to explore more.
The six things I could never do without
Spicy food
Cold weather
Kissing
Exploration/adventure
Good art
Learning
I spend a lot of time thinking about
1. Telling stories in my painting and making master pieces.
2. religions ... underlying basis for a lot of conflicts. How we can live happily, peacefully with no fear nor control and without a religion.
3. We, the individuals, losing our political influence to corporations because of corporate campaign finance.
On a typical Friday night I am
I could be working on paintings if inspiration strikes. Movie or dinner or just hang out.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 40–55
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, activity partners
You should message me if
You want to explore. You are curious. You are open for possibilities.