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52 M Chicago, IL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 22
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Time to move forward, certainly don't want to be a stagnant body of water. So with moving forward with time I am taking 50% of the blame for my marriage falling apart, and 100% of the responsibility for my stupidity afterwards.
Now, Need to dust myself off and carry on with a life worth living.

In my last bout of reflections I asked a friend why she liked hanging out with me. Her reply which followed made my day.

You(meaning me) talk about real things versus small talk.
You are willing to deal with pain rather than dumb it
You are allowing the possibility that your world view may be wrong.
You have a great sense of humor
How someone treats people when there is no societal demand for courtesy is indicative of their character.

Here are two texts received within 48 hours: I put them up to prove I do have a sense of humor.

"Oh my gosh sitting here reading the whole conversation we had last night to now  I have tears going down my face laughing so hard!!!!"

2nd text:
You made me laugh out loud with that 1
What I’m doing with my life
Ok, here are my goals for the remainder of the year.

Decorate the apartment so it shows my personality. Keeping said apartment clean.

Studying for two hours everyday so I can get my level two sommelier certification. Test is sometime in Feb.

Moving in positive direction by meditating.
I’m really good at
I am extremely good at getting lost. If "getting lost" was an Olympic event, I would medal for length of time being lost and how quickly I can get lost.

I am really good at starting a conversation and making people laugh.

I am really good at making people feel welcome.

I am really good at picking a bottle of wine!

I can tie a cherry stem into a knot well
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Tv was turned off a couple of months because I became frustrated with Comcast pricing then I had two thousand channels and everything sucked. I do miss the Daily Show and Stephen Colbert.
The six things I could never do without
1. My experience for it has giving this head of gray hairs merit and wisdom.
2. My daughter...She rocks!!!
3. My glasses or contacts, blind as a bat.
4. My strong desire to get back up after being smacked down. I am persistent to the nth degree.
5. My good taste!!!
6. My palette.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Tasting wine blindly. At times I feel I really know what I am doing then at times I feel I cant even tell the difference between Red or White wines.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
This question sucks!!! I am not even happy I am posting my pictures. Ok, here goes, I like wearing white after Labor Day!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 41–58
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
If you like freshly roasted coffee.

If you lose your keys often!!

If you like wine. Big part of my career!!!

If you like to cycle long distances.

One of my favorites dates during the last year was meeting for wine, dicussing anything and everthing for 6 hours and making this person laugh. I always try to be a fun person!

Good luck to everyone on their journey.