Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


53 Chicago, IL Man


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 46-58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:57am
Hispanic / Latin
5' 7" (1.71m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Time to move forward, certainly don't want to be a stagnant body of water. So with moving forward with time I am taking 50% of the blame for my marriage falling apart, and 100% of the responsibility for my stupidity afterwards.
Now, Need to dust myself off and carry on with a life worth living.

In my last bout of reflections I asked a friend why she liked hanging out with me. Her reply which followed made my day.

You(meaning me) talk about real things versus small talk.
You are willing to deal with pain rather than dumb it
You are allowing the possibility that your world view may be wrong.
You have a great sense of humor
How someone treats people when there is no societal demand for courtesy is indicative of their character.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Ok, here are my goals for the remainder of the year.

Decorate the apartment so it shows my personality. Keeping said apartment clean.

Studying for two hours everyday so I can get my level two sommelier certification. Test is sometime in Feb.

Moving in positive direction by meditating.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am extremely good at getting lost. If "getting lost" was an Olympic event, I would medal for length of time being lost and how quickly I can get lost.

I am really good at starting a conversation and making people laugh.

I am really good at making people feel welcome.

I am really good at picking a bottle of wine!

I can tie a cherry stem into a knot well
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Maybe my gray hairs??
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Tv was turned off a couple of months because I became frustrated with Comcast pricing then I had two thousand channels and everything sucked. I do miss the Daily Show and Stephen Colbert.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My experience for it has giving this head of gray hairs merit and wisdom.
2. My daughter...She rocks!!!
3. My glasses or contacts, blind as a bat.
4. My strong desire to get back up after being smacked down. I am persistent to the nth degree.
5. My good taste!!!
6. My palette.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Tasting wine blindly. At times I feel I really know what I am doing then at times I feel I cant even tell the difference between Red or White wines.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question sucks!!! I am not even happy I am posting my pictures. Ok, here goes, I like wearing white after Labor Day!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you like freshly roasted coffee.

If you lose your keys often!!

If you like wine. Big part of my career!!!

One of my favorites dates during the last year was meeting for wine, dicussing anything and everthing for 6 hours and making this person laugh. I always try to be a fun person!

Good luck to everyone on their journey.