Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am in a long-term polyamorous relationship. I am glad to answer
any and all questions about polyamory, committed open
relationships, etc. Bascially, our relationship is based on
honesty, openness, and communication. My lifelong partner in crime
is dreadpirate79, in case you were wondering.
I strongly believe that love knows no social boundaries.
Please don't mistake "availability" as an open invitation for
one-night stands or extremely casual sex. That's just not my bag,
Couples searching for a third: I understand your search, and wish
you both all the best, but I'm not the lady for you. Thank you for
not contacting me.
Now that THAT discussion is out of the way, perhaps a little bit
about me is in order. I am energetic, athletic, and curious. I
enjoy exploring new cities and towns, but, beware, I fawn over
plants everywhere I go! I just can't help myself!
I'm a complete and total nerd who loves the outdoors, gives a shit
about the environment, lives a mostly healthy lifestyle, and has a
fuckload of fun :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a landscape architect. A few years ago, I met a friend who
introduced me to the world of landscape architecture. And I fell in
love with the profession immediately. Landscape architecture
combines my scientific curiosity with my artistic passions, a
perfect blend of the things that make my heart sing.
And no, I don't want to mow your lawn. I also do not know why your
trees and shrubs are dying; unfortunately I am not a
Beyond my professional life, I am constantly looking for new
challenges. I love hiking and backpacking, kayaking and rafting.
Want to go skydiving? I'm in! Rock climbing? I'd love to learn!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding new ways to get from point A to point B. Avoiding parallel
parking at all costs. Kicking ass in the kitchen.
I love exploring artistic endeavors: vector illustrations, anything
involving hand drawn pen illustrations, 3D architecture modelling,
processing, sitting in the park and constructing sculpture out of
found objects . . . just having fun wherever we find ourselves.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Oddly, that I look like the girl next door. It tends to be a bit of
a shock that I'm much more . . . a pleasant shock, that is :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
(This is by no means an exhaustive list)
I'll Give You the Sun. Catch 22. Girl with a Dragon Tattoo series.
Anything by Jasper Fforde. Sex at Dawn. Crime and Punishment. The
Count of Monte Cristo. Fight Club.
I read voraciously in most genres. Most of my current selections
are either in garden design or fiction (there are some fantastic
young adult selections too)
Casablanca. Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind. Hitch. Die Hard.
Girl with a Dragon Tattoo series (Swedish version please). The
Dexter. Mad Men. Lost (worst. ending. ever) 24. Psych. Cheers.
Anything on Netflix that peaks my fancy . . . don't regularly watch
Anything, seriously. The spicier, the better. Wine (yes, please!).
Small-batch roasted coffee (I'm seriously swooning ... and I
started swooning before the hipsters took over the world)
The Gaslight Anthem. Alkaline Trio, Florence and the Machine.
Bouncing Souls. Social Distortion. Caitlin Rose. John Lennon. Cyndi
Lauper. The Indigo Girls.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How pedestrian-friendly towns are fabulous. The design for my next
tattoo. Rad plants.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Time is usually an issue with me . . . between work and family, I
only have a limited amount of availability. Start with the whole
communication thing, and, if that goes rather well, perhaps a cup
of coffee or a drink is in order.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you have something intelligent to say.
Just do it. Double dog dare you.**
** in hindsight, perhaps this wasn't the best thing to put in my
profile. How about we go with the intelligence thing, mmm-kay?
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