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31 M San Diego, CA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:45am
Asian, Pacific Islander
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Tagalog (Poorly), Arabic (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I finished my two-year stint in Peace Corps Morocco in November 2013. I traveled around Morocco for about a month. Then, I bounced around Europe for 3 months. I just got back to San Diego and I'm looking to meet new people.

Just this past December, one of my friends made me birthday cupcakes. They had a nice vanilla frosting on them. At the party that night, she told everyone why she made them that way. She said (and I'm paraphrasing), "At first, when I met you, I thought you were vanilla. But the more I've gotten to know you, I realized you have all this color inside of you". The cupcakes had little sprinkles baked inside them. Initially, I didn't know whether to be grateful or insulted by this. :-\
What I’m doing with my life
Since September 2011, I've been in Morocco doing Peace Corps. I'm a "Youth Development Volunteer". That's Peace Corps lingo for "I play with kids a lot". A feather in my cap is the national creative writing competition I started.

Before Peace Corps, I was in the business of taking care of Severely Emotionally Disturbed (SED) children from ages 6-17 for more than 4 years. Due to their histories of abuse, many of them have issues. I did that for about 4 years and I loved it (in general). I still keep this coloring page in my wallet that a girl made me when I first started working.
I’m really good at
avoiding questions that make me self-conscious.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm really bad at small talk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: 1984, Looking Backward, The Plague, Cat’s Cradle, The Little Prince, The Silver Cloud Cafe, Candide, Oh The Places You’ll Go!

Movies: Good Will Hunting, Philadelphia, Gandhi, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, As Good As It Gets, Contact, When Harry Met Sally, The Terminal, Casablanca, Shakespeare in Love, Ratatouille, The Namesake, Talladega Nights, Lost in Translation

Music: Bob Dylan, Bob Marley, The National, Tallest Man on Earth, Blue Scholars, The Ramones, Sufjan Stevens, Arcade Fire, Frightened Rabbit, Jessie Ware, Sigur Ros, Bon Iver, Florence + The Machine, Iron & Wine, Autre Ne Veut, The Civil Wars, Jeff Buckley, Joni Mitchell, Led Zeppelin, Local Natives, Vampire Weekend, William Fitzsimmons, Radiohead...the sound of children playing.

Food: Mexican, Thai, Vietnamese, Italian, Moroccan, Spanish, parents' homecookin'!
The six things I could never do without
Since family and friends aren't "things"...I guess these will do:

- Some kind of portable music listening doohikey
- A bike
- My passport
- Very good, but unpretentious restaurants
- My Padres hat I wore in Morocco and in Europe. It's pretty dirty and disgusting to say the least.
- The coloring pages, drawings, and notes that kids have given me throughout the years.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
how can I be a better person.
On a typical Friday night I am
Beats me. Contact me on a Friday night and see what I'm up to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I hate bugs like I hate injustice.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–34
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you feel like chatting.