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39 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 6:12pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I work in IT in Silicon Valley as a lead engineer in a network security company. I served as a United States Army Officer for 7 years with the last three years in Germany. The military has been a great experience but I am enjoying my time here in California. I have always enjoyed meeting new people and exploring new opportunities. I am looking for a serious relationship but I believe that relationships take time. 

My friends describe me as somebody who is active, polite, ambitious, and hardworking. I am loyal and always want to meet new people. I also like to check out different parts of the Bay Area. I also travel for work.

I am always striving to learn to excel in my career through broadening my skill sets.

I am very involved outside of work. I also used to plan and host monthly happy hours to meet new people and help others meet new people in the Bay Area.

I take life one day at a time and ensure that everybody enjoys their time with me. I want somebody to feel special. I am open to meeting people from different parts of the bay area. I am looking for someone who is smart and ambitious but also knows when to separate work from leisure and have fun with anyone. 
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I recently purchased a condo in San Jose this past summer, which I am really proud of.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning new concepts of computer networking technology for my profession.

Learning a new language. Right now, I am learning German and Brazilian Portuguese.

I am good at planning an evening with friends for a large group or a small group.

Making others feel welcome.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: A Song of Ice and Fire, Start With Why by Simon Sinek, Think and Grow Rich, The Wolf of Wall Street. I mostly enjoy books that focus on personal and professional development but I enjoy the occasional fiction.

Movies: There are so many to name. Recent ones are Moneyball, Zero Dark Thirty, 42, and Man of Steel. I enjoy foreign movies including City of God, Lola Rent, and Baader-Meinhof Komplex.

All music, Italian, Mexican, and German food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order:
Warm Weather
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can improve myself personally and professionally.

What new adventure should I try in the Bay Area whether it be hiking, a new restaurant, or social organization.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Go to work out, a happy hour, or a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will tell you when we meet.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are vibrant, adventurous, curious about life, and never stop learning. You are responsible. You are mature enough to make good decisions. You would like to meet in person. Most importantly: I want you to be yourself and nothing else.