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gloryhal

39 / F / Straight / Single

New York, New York

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 2:56am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Despite having written professionally, I find these self-summaries excruciatingly baffling to pen ( or type) -this doesn't really help you much. Maybe you relate though? I want that... someone who relates and I can relate with.

I want to make you laugh and you to make me laugh...a lot...without either of us trying...

I have lived in 4 countries & multiple US cities. Spent half of my life in LA and after 2 years of being bi-coastal am now firmly planted in NYC. There are endless places to visit and if I could be paid to see them all I would- starting now- with Southeast Asia.

As an only child with parents who lived in different countries, I developed a fearlessness of doing things on my own. The truth is though- most adventures are so much better to discover, experience and tell stories after, when there is someone with you.

By nature I am a creative but I am willing to learn and be taught about things beyond my nature, especially by those passionate about what they are sharing.

Why am I here? The internet can be a great resource to meet people you wouldn't normally cross paths with and that can be exciting. One hopes... I believe the sooner we meet in person the better.
What I’m doing with my life
I have a fantastic personal chef job in lower Manhattan and just finished exec-producing/starring in a play in Los Angeles. What's up next? Not sure, I am currently seeking my next creative project. But that's what I do, is that what I'm doing with my life? I don't think I can truly answer that question ...
I’m really good at
Getting people to share their secrets.
Cooking
Making people laugh when they need it most.
Walking long distances in all kinds of weather.
Snow skiing.
Rambling.
Witty texting (Can provide Strong References.)
Tongue Twisters...
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends on who is doing the looking and what I am wearing. My eyes and smile would be high on the list...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Most recent loves:
Non- Fiction: Outliers
Fiction: Shadow of the Wind
** Always Desperately seeking a new great novel.

Movies: The Shawshank Redemption, Wedding Crashers, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Row Hard, Brødre, Les Jeux D'Enfants, Amelie, Life is Beautiful, The Usual Suspects, Transsiberian, Pulp Fiction, The Lives of Others, The Reader, The Hours, Croupier, Gladiator, True Romance, The Hangover, The Kids are Alright, The Fighter, Shame, Thelma + Louise, Beginners, Old Boy...

TV: Currently: The Good Wife, Damages, Suits, Covert Affairs, Scandal, yes got on the Homeland bandwagon too. Past: Still wishing LOST had never ended.

Music: Yes please. Lots. Always looking to discover new local bands that stay with me to the point I need to download them and play on repeat for days on end walking the NYC city streets. Any suggestions?

Food: Unsweetened Dried Mango, Chinese Crab with Black Bean Ginger + Chili, Melting hot chocolate chip cookies, Brötchen mit Frühlings quark und Gouda. Raw Sharp White Cheddar, Stumptown Espresso, fresh, local organic, seasonal ingredients, cooking with friends/family. Surprises.
The six things I could never do without
OK assuming water, food, air and sleep are covered.

I am going with:
Laughter
The Ocean
Touch
Music
A good pillow
My iphone.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My next creative project...things and people I shouldn't be thinking about...the environment...wondering what other people are thinking about as they walk about their day...the state of politics in this country...films...food.... Wishing I could beam places...like Whistler right now to ski for four days then Bali...
On a typical Friday night I am
No typical- Some work, some play, some solitary.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I only had the first semester of 6th grade and the second semester of 7th grade. I think I missed something very important in that oddly skipped year.
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 27–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
For any reason you like :)

Here are a few suggestions:

- You actually want to meet up in person. I am not really looking for pen/text pals ;)

-You are single. If you are in a committed relationship do what you need to do but that's not for me.

- Because.. I'm not likely to contact you first ;)

P.S. I'm much more likely to respond if you have a photo posted where I can see your face, including your eyes. Not that I don't love your dog, sunglasses, abs or surfboard but I would prefer to see you :)