I like basically all things nerdy (scifi, D&D, comics, computers, geek culture), playing pool, cheap adventures, watching TV, gender-bending, small-scale shenanigans, and inside jokes.
I'm happy to meet all sorts of friends from this site, especially folks who live in the South Bay or Peninsula.
In the dating/bedroom area, I am most compatible with kinky folks and have a preference for "bigger girls" (I'm a bit of a chubby chaser regardless of gender, actually). But strong connections don't always come in the packages you expect and I don't have a checklist that you must fulfill in order for me to find you attractive/want to date you. In the past, I mostly topped and been exclusively with girls. That is still who I am, but I'm much more exploratory and switchy these days.
As for me in general, I have a more gregarious, outspoken, and non-traditional side - I'm pro-sex workers' rights, gender normativity is not my thing, I have done by share of partying, and I tend to do open relationships. On the other, I am a complete nerd - dedicated to my work, somewhat reclusive, and often wishing and struggling to be like the normals. Blame it on the Gemini in me. We get a bad rap, but I promise I'm almost always a laugh. :)