Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First... If you quick match me... I can't see it. Sorry... But I'm
not really taking this site serious enough to pay it money.
So ok... Here it goes... Here's my info or whatever...
Divorced about 3 years ago from a 13 year relationship.... And...
It's taken a bit... but... Everything in my life is finally fine.
My daughter is the best human who ever lived. My jobs are great.
I've always had the most amazing friends. I'm
writing/recording/performing music that I love. I like myself. I
like most everyone around me. I can't really complain.... About
I'd rather talk to you about music or life than sex or sports.
So... There ya go.
I write music in my free time. I still like rolling around on a
skateboard and making music with old friends. I ride my bike a lot
in the summer. I love kickin back and enjoying a conversation with
good people over a few drinks. I'm pretty atheist. Liberal-ish.
Equal rights. The environment concerns me. I don't usually believe
the hype. I love reminding myself that the world does not revolve
around me and Im pretty serious about forgiveness and empathy.
We're all human out here, you know? No one is perfect. I don't know
why so many people expect us to be.
Just maybe looking for someone to talk to at this point. That's
about it. Hang out. See if we give a shit. Feel it out. Have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking care of my daughter. I'm managing a restaurant/bar in
Broad Ripple. And I'm writing music that will be recorded this year
if I can pull it all together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm SUPER good at surrounding myself with quality people. I love
that about myself.
I'm also good at eating shit and not getting hurt. Kinda like Clark
The first things people usually notice about me
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You might notice right away that I don't really care too much about
sports or video games or wasting away in front of the TV. So I have
nothing to add at the "water cooler". The probability of me knowing
what happened in the news today or what recent movie you are trying
to quote is pretty slim.
But that being said, I'm not opposed to watching a Colts game with
good friends. I can have fun doing anything... If people I love are
involved I could have fun shoveling shit.
People are always freaking out about my skin and how young I look
for a 37 year old... Pretty much everyday someone says to me that
they thought I was like 24 years old... So... Maybe you'll be one
of those people, and maybe that'll be what you notice. I don't
Or... Maybe you'll be one of those people that tell me I look like
Keanu Reeves or the kid from Dazed and Confused. I get those a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut, American Psycho, it's such a beautiful day, Social
Satires, The Ricky Gervais show, Louie, Cosmos, Vice, Bill
Maher.... 1% of metal and 1% of indie rock that comes out (I find
most of it very typical and boring) and all food except meat...
although you'll never really hear me bring it up...I'm a very quiet
(Sorta half assed) vegetarian. In fact a lot of the time I'm forced
to talk about it against my will... People love to make fun of me
for it. Especially dudes. Always offering me bacon and shit. I
guess that's funny for them or something... I don't know. But it's
not really one of those jokes that gets better each time or
anything. Sure would be great if it did though.
Built to Spill, anything Doug Martsch does is gonna be perfect,
Radical Face, Radiohead, Flaming Lips, Tame Impala, Dinosaur Jr,
Guns n Roses, Yes, Pink Floyd, Guthrie Govan, Appleseed Cast, Faith
No More, Sunny Day Real Estate, Quicksand, Blonde Redhead, The
Goastt, Chelsea Wolfe.
Shining, Dodheimsgard, Gojira, Mastodon and all the old metal
I'm kind of a music lover that hates most of it. It's
Modern country though... Wow... It sucks. Like... I find it so
repulsive that it literally makes me bummed out that I'm human. It
actually makes me uncomfortable. If I had secret government
information that someone was trying to pry out of me... all they
would have to do is put on some modern country... I would squeal
like a pig that just sat on a tack.
I'm pretty sure my favorite food is sauce.
If I find myself in front of the tv it's usually a documentary...
Or Seinfeld. And 9 times outta 10 the documentaries are about food
and its impact on everything around us. I'm into it. Most people
aren't. Which kinda bums me out a little. But whatever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, friends and people and being social, my guitars, food
with sauce on it, really shitty music that I can't bond with anyone
about, and beer maybe.
Actually... Turns out I can live without beer... I have for the
last 6 weeks.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and the universe and what the fuck I'm doing here and if it
will ever matter, and if I'm wasting my life at work, and how fast
it's all going, and how I'm only here once and what to do about all
this. What to believe, what not to believe. Considering the source.
If all this shit is real or just my brain perceiving it and if it's
perceiving it correctly or not. How little everything seems to
matter when you look at the earth from 30 trillion light years
away. Who's giving me good advice. Who's giving me bad advice. What
I want out of it all. What I don't want.
Music... writing music and how I can do it better.
Raising my daughter to be an empathetic person that values herself
and knows the difference between things that matter and things that
don't. But to be honest, she doesn't need much help. She's
incredible. But I'm a pretty big softy when it comes to her...
So... Sometimes I wonder if she'll be tough enough... I don't know
what I'm doing... But, so far so good... So I'll just keep playin
it by ear I guess.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working and then trying to meet up with friends that have been
drinking for hours and then doing everything I can to catch up with
them.... Most of the time... But lately I am on a break from
drinking... So... I mostly just go home after work and spend a lot
of time looking for something on Netflix and then passing out.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not really ashamed of anything really. I do what everyone else
does in private.
My room isn't very clean and I kinda like Wham!
You should message me if
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Fuck... If you made it this far...you might as well message me.
This thing is long winded as hell... I almost feel like I should
But... Anyways... I'm pretty open. There's really no reason not to
message me if you think any of the bullshit I've said on here is
even half interesting.
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