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gnfnr77

37 Indianapolis, IN Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:14am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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First... If you quick match me... I can't see it. Sorry... But I'm not really taking this site serious enough to pay it money.

So ok... Here it goes... Here's my info or whatever...

Divorced about 3 years ago from a 13 year relationship. So I'm pretty new to all this shit. I've gotten comfortable with being alone..... Sorta. Not really. I don't know. I don't mind being single though. I really haven't been single since I was 17... So it's been nice to get to know myself at this age... Who knows? But I miss having a partner too... So... Whatever. Ha

I'm pretty sure I'm not your typical money grubbing, collar popping, materialistic, arrogant douchebag... but I'm also pretty sure everyone's profile says something along the same lines, so... maybe I AM your typical butthole.... I don't know. Hard to say from the inside looking out. But I'd rather talk to you about music or life than sex and sports. So... There ya go.

I write music in my free time. I still like rolling around on a skateboard and making music with old friends. I ride my bike a lot. I love kickin back and enjoying a conversation with good people over a few drinks.

Just maybe looking for someone to talk to at this point. That's about it. Hang out. See if we give a shit. Feel it out. Have fun. Right?
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm taking care of my daughter. I'm managing a restaurant/bar in Broad Ripple. And I'm writing music that will be recorded this year if I can pull it all together.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm SUPER good at surrounding myself with quality people. I love that about myself.

I'm also good at eating shit and not getting hurt. Kinda like Clark Griswald.
The first things people usually notice about me
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You might notice right away that I don't really care too much about sports or video games or wasting away in front of the TV. So I have nothing to add at the "water cooler". The probability of me knowing what happened in the news today or what recent movie you are trying to quote is pretty slim.

But that being said, I'm not opposed to watching a Colts game with good friends. But that's about all the further I wanna get into it.

People are always freaking out about my skin and how young I look for a 37 year old... Pretty much everyday someone says to me that they thought I was like 24 years old... So... Maybe you'll be one of those people, and maybe that'll be what you notice. I don't know.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut, American Psycho, Social Satires, The Ricky Gervais show, Louie, Cosmos, Vice, Bill Maher.... 1% of metal and 1% of indie rock that comes out (I find most of it very typical and boring) and all food except meat... although you'll never really hear me bring it up...I'm a very quiet (Sorta half assed) vegetarian. In fact a lot of the time I'm forced to talk about it against my will... People love to make fun of me for it. Especially dudes. Always offering me bacon and shit. I guess that's funny for them or something... I don't know. But it's not really one of those jokes that gets better each time or anything. Sure would be great if it did though.

Built to Spill, anything Doug Martsch does is gonna be perfect, Radical Face, Radiohead, Flaming Lips, Tame Impala, Dinosaur Jr, Guns n Roses, Yes, Pink Floyd, Guthrie Govan, Appleseed Cast, Faith No More, Sunny Day Real Estate, Quicksand, Blonde Redhead, The Goastt,

Shining, Dodheimsgard, Gojira, Mastodon and all the old metal classics.

I'm kind of a music lover that hates most of it. It's frustrating.

Modern country though... Wow... It sucks with a vengeance. Like... I find it so repulsive that it literally makes me bummed out that I'm human. It actually makes me uncomfortable. If I had secret government information that someone was trying to pry out of me... all they would have to do is put on some modern country... I would squeal like a pig that just sat on a tack.

I'm pretty sure my favorite food is sauce.

If I find myself in front of the tv it's usually a documentary... And 9 times outta 10 it's about food and its impact on everything around us. I'm into it. Most people aren't. Which kinda bums me out a little. But whatever.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter, friends and people and being social, my guitars, food with sauce on it, really shitty music that I can't bond with anyone about, and beer maybe.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life and the universe and what the fuck I'm doing here and if it will ever matter, and if I'm wasting my life at work, and how fast it's all going, and how I'm only here once and what to do about all this. What to believe, what not to believe. Considering the source. If all this shit is real or just my brain perceiving it and if it's perceiving it correctly or not. How little everything seems to matter when you look at the earth from 30 trillion light years away. Who's giving me good advice. Who's giving me bad advice. What I want out of it all. What I don't want.

Music... writing music and how I can do it better.

Raising my daughter to be an empathetic person that values herself and knows the difference between things that matter and things that don't. But to be honest, she doesn't need much help. She's incredible. But I'm a pretty big softy when it comes to her... So... Sometimes I wonder if she'll be tough enough... I don't know what I'm doing... But, so far so good... So I'll just keep playin it by ear I guess.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
working and then trying to meet up with friends that have been drinking for hours and then doing everything I can to catch up with them.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not really ashamed of anything really. I do what everyone else does in private.

My room isn't very clean and I kinda like Wham!

And I like Instagram if you couldn't tell already. But I am embarrassed about it so try to cut me some slack. Thanks. :). I usually just post pics of my daughter anyways.
You should message me if
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Message me if you wanna talk I guess. I'm pretty open. There's really no reason not to message me if you think any of the bullshit I've said on here is even half interesting.