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34 Tokyo, Japan Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:13pm
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Buddhism and laughing about it
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
UPDATE: Slowdancing and listening to the band Grails is suddenly really important to me. Contact me for further instructions.

Let's make this easy. Go listen to the song "Anvil will fall" by Harvey Milk. If you, like me, think it is the most strangely beautiful song ever, then let's be friends. Or we could just be friends anyway.

Possible alternatives: "these days" ( the Nico version), "Girl from the north county"(Dylan and Cash version), "kiss the bottle" by Jawbreaker, or the entire RVIVR discography.

I love theatre, live performance, basement punk shows, hiking, holding hands, and impromptu sing alongs. When I start conversation, it is because I want to know everything about you.
I am very open and vocal about my thoughts, my emotions, my fears and insecurities. I love intensity and intensely, but it takes time for me to feel comfort and safety with new people.

I think that homophobia, sexism, racism, xenophobia, transphobia, hetero and mononormativity are fucking bullshit.

All that being said. I'm a fun guy, honest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Wrangling kids and dreaming of burritos. Hatching plans and taking forever to bring them into fruition. Exploring rooftops and backstreets. Documenting street art and watching people.
Thinking about what happens next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Dancing the night away, making an ass of myself, figuring out public transit
Overthinking things.
Making chashu pork.
Finding arbitrary, yet tragically hip obsessions.
Setting rules for myself and then breaking them.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm amazingly, dashingly handsome
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Short list:
The good, the bad & the ugly
Black Sabbath
Souvenirs D'un Autre Monde by Alcest
Anything by Philip Roth
Confederacy of dunces
Irvine Welsh

The only movie I brought to Japan is El Topo. I don't if that gives me street cred or not.

I think that the album Pinkerton by Weezer sucks. Somebody had to say it.

I collect cassette tapes. Partially because they are harder to find, so I spend less money on them, but mostly because tapes are awesome. I'll make you a mix tape if you ask nicely.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Here's 6 things I could forever do without
1. Mayonnaise
2. Steely Dan
3. Cockroaches
4. The majority of Hollywood movies
5. Dumb black metal elitism
6. Essentialism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Black beans and guacamole
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I love the band Men At Work
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You have any interest in punk rock, craft beer, or hiking. I would like to make some Japanese friends, but I'll meet anyone who piques my interest.