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introspective, extroverted, and random

My self-summary Propose an edit

I like indie movies that most people haven't heard of. I drink wine, preferably Pinot Noir. I end sentences with prepositions. I'm not really into sports, but I like the Utah Jazz. I play pool because I like the sounds the balls make when they hit each other. I'm attracted to intelligent men, but I'm afraid I appear ignorant to them. Singing Mozart in a choir makes me giddy. I like to be independent, but I have no desire to change the oil in my car. I like people or activities that make me look at the world in a different way. I drink way too much coffee, chai and other caffeinated beverages. I have a penchant for pigtails. I love the word 'facetious'. I'm a free spirit rooted in reality.

The guy I'm looking for:
You are comfortable in your own skin. You realize that you have issues, but you know how to manage them. You value intelligence in yourself and the people around you, but don't come off as an intellectual snob either. You enjoy being challenged by the people in your life. You generally see the world as a great place to be and enjoy experiencing life. You know the value of a good friend.

Ok, enough fluff. On to the ugly truths:

-I'm vegetarian, but I don't care if my partner eats meat (as long as you don't harass me about not eating it.)
-I am a militant non-smoker. If you smoke, you should be prepared to quit.
-I'm 99.9% sure I do not want children. I do not hate children, just don't aspire to procreation as a means to 'leave a legacy' or to satisfy my family.
-I'm undecided as to what kind of step parent I might make. It really depends on the individual situation.
-My cats (I have 2) are my children and I will not get rid of them for anyone.
-I'm staunchly against illegal drug use. I will not tolerate it in my close relationships.
-I loathe, detest, and vehemently hate being lied to. I'd much rather deal with an ugly truth than a pretty lie.
-I am NOT interested in cyber sex or one-night-stands. If thats what you are looking for, please go away now.
-If you aren't within the ages of 25 to 38 I will not reply. Sorry!

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I'm currently working on buying my own home. It might not happen right away, but I'm certain it will eventually.
I currently work as a receptionist. While I don't hate my job, I don't aspire to stay in the position forever. I'm toying with the idea of going back to school, possibly to become a Vet Tech or a Nutritionist.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Photography and flirting. ;-)

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I'm very outgoing and expressive. I rarely hold things back. If I like you, you'll know it. You'll know if I don't as well. I'm tenacious. When I set my mind to something, I do it. Doesn't matter how long it takes, I will achieve it. I like to get into drawn-out discussions about anything and everything. Fragmented conversations that start out about Star Wars and end with a discussion regarding social conditioning and philosophy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Books-Anything that makes me think. Favorites include "The Curious Incident of the Dog in the Night-time" (I forget the author), "Phantom" by Susan Kay, "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coelho, "Hardcore Zen" by Brad Warner, and "Veronica Decides to Die" by Paulo Coelho. Movies-Hedwig and the Angry Inch, The Last Unicorn, The Two Towers, Waking Life, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Vanilla Sky, and (this is all one movie title) Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter, and Spring. Music-Basically anything except Rap/HipHop/R&B. Favorite bands include Garbage, The Eels, The Killers and Evanescence. Foods-I'm vegetarian, so no meat of course. I love Italian and Mexican though. I try to keep my diet healthy, so lots of fresh fruits and veggies. I also love wine.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

1. My Computer 2. My Cats 3. Books 4. Oxygen (funny how thats so far down on the list) 5. Lip Gloss 6. Coffee

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Whether the plural of pegasus is pegasi or pegasuses. Ok, I know that in Greek mythology there was only one Pegasus. But what if there were more?!?

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

Spending a quiet night in my bath tub with a book or out and about with my friends.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I can wiggle my ears.

You should message me if Propose an edit

It looks like we match and you aren't allergic to cats!

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goddess_in_red: 3458 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Cancer and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
N/A
Kids
Likes children, but doesn't want any
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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