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43 • Chicago, IL • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 26–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Apr 25
- Body type
I am pretty multi-faceted. I am really supportive sensitive, creative, very serious minded and yet have a good sense of humour and a very loud laugh that is contagious if you get me going.
I am a "Highly Sensitive Person" which means I need a lot of down time and creative outlets. "Highly Sensitive Person" also means a recovering Neurotic, which I my career path is nare-do-well artist, entre-manure.
I love nature, hiking and camping. Although I don't do it enough. I am originally from a rural area in southern Illinois.
I buy sell and collect designer furniture but am not making enough money. I have entered into the design resale multiple times over the years to make cash and then quit again to make art.
I have worked mainly in the performing arts but am now shifting towards installation, video art, and printmaking.
I am a bisexual rights activist. I speak out so people may love whomever they want! I have been assisting in organizing bi event at the Center on Halsted. This is an important aspect of my life as I find it important to help people who don't fit into the LGBTQIA mainstream.
I can take very complex information and communicate it in a way that most people will understand.
I love mushroom hunting but have never found "the place" in the Northern Illinois State Parks. I will try again this spring.
I have a very good eye for designer furniture or purchasing high end items at estate sales or rumage sales. But I am also trying to break the habit to focus more on my art work.
So people have been scared of me because of my size, perhaps it was the bear hug.
But I really am a gentle giant.
Food: Really good corned beef, salmon cream cheese red onion capers and bagel, MOREL Mushrooms!
a spiritual connection
a good imagination
a sense of humour
If you value intimacy/love/connection and sensuality
If you are a kind loving person.
If you are looking for a long term life partner. Someone to build a life with. I have been in both long term monogomous and long term polyamorous relationships. My primary value is a committed partner but I am also open to open and poly relationships as well.
Emotional maturity and safety are very important to me in a partner. A commitment to personal growth through relationship is also important. I have 14 years of therapy under my belt which means I am not perfect. But it has helped gain insight into myself and others.
I really mean "non-monosexual queers" or bisexual and pansexual men and women but there is not an option for that. This includes bisexual women, FTM transmen, non-binary genderqueer people, MTF women, and bi guys. Part of the reason I am on here is to create a community of loving compassionate caring friends. And perhaps a friend who becomes more than a friend. I love all kinds of people - a soulful connection with a like minded spirit is what I am looking for.
My hope ultimately is to find my best friend and partner rolled into one. Someone who will be supportive as I pursue my goals as an artist and writer.
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