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46 M Astoria, NY

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White, Other
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
It's been forever since I've updated ... will resummarize myself soon.

For now, a few new pics are a start.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching philosophy. Playing guitar. Exploring the city. Trying not to let the important things slip.
I’m really good at
Making pasta salads. I rarely blow my own horn, but the fact is that most people who taste one of my pasta salads go back for seconds.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Reading: Some of the classics of ancient philosophy never get old to me, stuff like Aristotle's Nicomachean Ethics and Plato's Republic. The Fountainhead is great. As much as I love to read, I don't gush too much about favorite books. Mystery novels for light reading. My favorite magazine is the New Yorker. I like when I find myself absorbed in an article that did not look interesting at first.

Movies: I don't go to the movies nearly enough....Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Spinal Tap, the Royal Tanenbaums, James Bond. Horror is not my thing.

Food: Japanese, Italian, Thai, Chinese, Mexican, Korean, Vietnamese, an occasional good steak, and always a good breakfast. Orange juice and coffee in the morning; green tea; red wine or beer every now and then.

Music: Tons of stuff. Lots of jazz (but no "smooth jazz"). Rock, yes--classic and newer. I like classical music but don't listen to enough. Very little country. Very little music that is all electronic. Very, very little rap/hip-hop.
The six things I could never do without
Here are the six foods I would really, really much prefer to have rather than not have:
1. black olives
2. not-from-concentrate orange juice
3. sushi, specifically fresh salmon
4. good pizza
5. matzo brei
6. coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How jazz musicians think about music; the fragile and strong points of civilization; how to be a better teacher; virtue and ethics; finishing my Ph.D.
On a typical Friday night I am
No ritual. I could be out hearing music, out to dinner with friends, at home, or at the gym.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think of "Jewish" as my ethnicity. (Hence, the "other" above.) For me, this doesn't require that I believe in the religion or avoid spare ribs in Chinese restaurants.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to for any reason that doesn't involve lying to me.