Really I am looking to date someone. Male or female it doesn't matter. I want to explore love in its many facets. I want someone I can talk to, someone I can talk with and someone who likes to give was well as receive pleasure.
I'm a geek and pro geek, nerd or dork, so long as you are a nice person. I tend to find that geeks have a similar sense of humor to me and similar interests, but that does not mean I'm ONLY into geeks.
Anyways, I read a lot, play with my kids and love to hang out with friends. I think I am all the stereotypical things that people mention also (good natured, fun-loving, kind, open) but that just doesn't say much about me.
Oddities are the most important things in life. Normalcy is frightening. I love kink, and weirdness and experimentation.
I recently realized that while everyone I know thinks of me as talkative and open, I am SUPER shy. I hate making first moves and rejection freaks me out big time, but I think that's a common problem, hence the dating site.