Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not single in the usual sense of the word, but I am available.
My husband and I are poly and I am looking for interesting people
to meet with, chat with or explore with.
Really I am looking to date someone. Male or female it doesn't
matter. I want to explore love in its many facets. I want someone I
can talk to, someone I can talk with and someone who likes to give
was well as receive pleasure.
I'm a geek and pro geek, nerd or dork, so long as you are a nice
person. I tend to find that geeks have a similar sense of humor to
me and similar interests, but that does not mean I'm ONLY into
Anyways, I read a lot, play with my kids and love to hang out with
friends. I think I am all the stereotypical things that people
mention also (good natured, fun-loving, kind, open) but that just
doesn't say much about me.
Oddities are the most important things in life. Normalcy is
frightening. I love kink, and weirdness and experimentation.
I recently realized that while everyone I know thinks of me as
talkative and open, I am SUPER shy. I hate making first moves and
rejection freaks me out big time, but I think that's a common
problem, hence the dating site.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Have a BA in theatre and back in school to be a middle school
teacher. Middle school is a rough time and I want to help students
have good experiences.
Life to me is also about the people I surround myself with. I have
good friends and they are just as important as my life goals.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading. Hmm...I'm quite a good writer, although I generally just
write academically. Fiction is not a strong suit, but I have
written some kick ass poetry before.
I'm also awesome at talking, and I'm getting pretty good at
listening. I love to argue, discuss and ask why.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm not sure. I have trouble being that metacognitive. I guess it
might be that I'm nice, at least the majority of the time. I like
to joke with gas station clerks, and try and cheer up the poor
depressed masses of menial workers. I've been there, I know how
much it sucks, they deserve a good smile more than anyone else.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Recently I have been on a romance kick (Vaginal Fantasy a la
Felicia Day). But I read pretty much anything, here are some of my
Black Jewels Trilogy
Hitchikers Guide to the Galaxy
As for movies I don't watch a ton of them, of the ones I do I tend
to have a depressing selection of intense movies like:
Crash, Requiem for a Dream, Pi, Fight Club.
For the more lighthearted I like a lot of books turned movies
LOTR, Harry Potter and the Hunger Games.
I am also a geek for action flicks, sometimes you just need to
watch things explode - with examples such as:
XXX, Fast and the Furious (all of them), Red, that one movie with
all the hit men in one hotel where they all kill each other.
Last but not least (with movies) I love the quirky films
Igby Goes Down, Donnie Darko, Lucky Number Slevin and the
Music is something I love, but I can never pin down a genre, for
example here are my top 5 bands in no particular order
2. The Beatles
4. Sondre Lerche
For food I am currently on an adventure, trying new things as often
as I can and experimenting with flavors. I find I like some
curries, and Asian food is amazing.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Also as flip as air and water may seem I do actually mean them. I
love breezy days - they are one of my favorite things ever - and I
like romping around in the rain or swimming immensely.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The moment, and what I can do to make future moments better. I like
to daydream about an ideal world, post-apoc, with gardens pervading
all. When jolted to real world musings I often think about how sad
and wrong our world is, quite the opposites eh?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Siting at home watching Dr Who, having friends over for dinner or
curling up with a good book. I enjoy going out, but it is not
something I do often.
My favorite is cooking good food (or more realistically baking
sweet treats) with friends and talking about everything until we go
Some good old rock band never goes awry as well.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm not normal, and while I'm a proponent for the freaks and odd
ones, I feel ever so slightly horrified that I am a part of the
non-typical. That said, I more thoroughly LOVE being thought of as
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are curious, geeky or something you read made you want to start
an argument. I love some good old respectful discourse.
You want to date and have fun.
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