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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:18pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Grounded but a little left of center. Lover of art in all of it's manifestations: music, film, comics, nature, great conversation, hilarity, and a buzz to go along with all of it. A cheese plate never hurts.

Skilled vegetarian free-style cook. If given the opportunity, I will seduce you with my cooking, if not my creative baking.

What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Surviving NYC and discovering its strange and beautiful secrets. Taking advantage of art and live music. Keeping an eye out for Toynbee tiles. Finding awesome AND uncrowded watering holes. Avoiding waiting on lines. Working and sleeping.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering details from things you've said.


Finding rad things to do (that aren't necessarily publicized) in terms of music, art, food, drinks etc.

I tend to be lucky in winning stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I recently asked a couple of friends (awkwardly explaining that it's for the purpose of completing this section of my profile) and they said my smile. So there you go.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- Voracious reader. All-time faves include Robbins, Vonnegut, Atwood, Sedaris. Geek Love by Katherine Dunn was an incredible mind-blower. Finally reading 'The Goldfinch.' Also have an obsession with comics/graphic novels. Alison Bechdel, Alex Robinson & Craig Thompson are a few faves.

Film- Anything visually stunning, super stylized, complex, clever, with great dialogue. I like stuff that's super-weird. Or anything that involves sectionals/regionals/nationals or a dance-off. Come to the movies with me, and I'll show you how a double-header is done properly.

TV - Freaks & Geeks, Arrested Development, Twin Peaks. I'll give anything a chance as long as it's well-written and well-acted. Or if it's just hilarious.

Music - I'm constantly absorbing new stuff. All time faves include Beck, Radiohead, Pavement, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Holly Golightly. Like everyone else, I feel that there are too many to list. I often re-visit oldies. I save my ticket stubs, try to get the setlist at the end of a show, and I've been tracking all concerts I go to on a spreadsheet for years. Want to be my concert bud?

Food- I have a diverse palate in terms of cuisine. I have a CSA share, and I get tons of awesome normal stuff and a bit of really weird stuff like garlic scapes, kholrabi, cardoons. I enjoy looking up and cooking up new recipes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dad jokes
Wine and scotch

I could do without sidewalk spitters and the term 'foodie.'
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dream analysis.

And how exactly one goes about making a citizen's arrest.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on how active my week has been and what happens to be going on that night. Sometimes it's nice to just spend a Friday night in.

Frequently checking out exhibits at the Whitney or MOMA. I'm a member of both. I keep an active spreadsheet of current exhibitions of all museums in NYC too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a spectacle to behold whilst eating corn on the cob.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are literate and literary. You are intelligent and street-smart. You enjoy music, know a lot about it, and you can provide the perfect recommendation for the next band I should check out.

You are proud of your character. You are kind, hilarious, quirky, generous, and ambitious (without losing sight of life's smaller treasures). You are introspective and self-aware. You follow through with promises you make.

You are aggressively affectionate. You are sophisticated with a silly side, a touch of snobbery is OK.

You can teach me something awesome, like how to count cards while gambling!

You do not wear sports jerseys as fashion.

You have fun ideas and want to take advantage of NYC. What ideas have you got?