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40 • M • Portland, OR
I’m looking for
- Ages 29–45
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends
- Last Online
- Aug 3
- 6′ 3″ (1.91m)
- Body Type
- Mostly vegetarian
- Atheism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from space camp
- Relationship Status
- Relationship Type
- Has kids, but doesn’t want more
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
We were de facto monogamous for several years, when our lives were too hectic and stressful to really be part of a community. Now that we don't have children under 5 and are finding a more supportive community, we're starting to open up our relationship again.
Is this TMI? Maybe. My point is that I don't want to present myself as someone in an open relationship who's really ready to start a new relationship. I'm open to dating, but I'm more interested in meeting friends to hang out with first....
I have what I think are great ideas that mostly I never do anything with - Startup Ideas As A Service.
I can design stuff a bit, and code a lot better, and mostly I just listen to what people tell me and clarify what they want for them.
Music: I've probably listened to about everything at one time or another. Lately I've settled into a lot of reggae and a lot of folk-punk. I could probably listen to nothing but Blackbird Raum and be satisfied most days.
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