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goldensaxlady

49 / F / Gay / Single

Whitstable, United Kingdom

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:57pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism but not too serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm happiest outdoors; I like fresh air and nature, organic gardening and making living willow structures, bbq's on the beach in the summer, swimming and kayaking in the sea, camping, motorcycle trips (I have a full license); walking in the woods - it's all meditation to me...

Art and music are really important in my life. I'm a hands on person and will happily spend time making things out of clay. In another life I worked in a pottery. I have been playing the saxophone for many years now. Gig often, mainly locally but am reinventing myself so that when people ask how work is, it'll be about music as the day job is about to go!

I have a band where we play Jazz, funk, soul and blues...I am also in a House Band in a Burlesque-style variety show. It's great fun and I get to dress up! Love to play in all sorts of situations, will actively get involved in local street protests for social justice.

I have two grown up sons who I adore. Laugh at the ridiculous and prefer the company of people who don't take themselves too seriously. I like gadgets and technology.

Hoping to meet someone who shares my love of healthy, fresh food, laughing a lot, being honest and having respect for one another's personal growth and well-being are all important to me in a relationship. Apparently, I'm less sex-driven! This is not true...
What I’m doing with my life
Building a future of love and happiness. Working, cooking for friends, performing live music, trying to learn from my mistakes
I’m really good at
Diving into beds of heather, playing sax like a demon, anything hands on...
The first things people usually notice about me
is my smile, my eyes, my hair
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
The Art of Happiness by the Dalai Lama, books on Bhuddism, wild food books, seafood recipe books, handmade books, fiction, art books; Movies: One Flew Over the Cuckoo's nest, action movies, Pans Labyrinth, romantic, comedy anything by Woody Allen; Music: Jazz, Norah Jones, Corinne Bailey - Rae, Herbie Hancock, Earth, Wind and Fire, Miles Davis, John Coltrane, Charlie Parker, The Crusaders, Joni Mitchell, Jaco Pastorius, Sly Stone, Bobby Womack; all yummy foods, especially seafood and Sushi…I love to cook the best roasts in the world - pretty damn good cook.
The six things I could never do without
Love. Music. Fresh air. Sunshine. My friends. Sex. Garlic. Hot baths. My hands...
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Finding out how to keep connected to the universe and tapping into the Life Force channels...
On a typical Friday night I am
Playing live music maybe but every night is different
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I parked on my next door neighbours driveway whilst she was away-only for 5 minutes or so!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 41–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
you like my profile and think we'd get on