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40 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:27pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
I am a listener, but I enjoy relaxed and serious conversation - and banter. I like big epic landscapes, dinner parties , reggae, rock , blues, baroque opera, Vivaldi, lots of early classical music , Beethoven , Shakespeare , the Bronte Sisters, Virginia Wolf, Aristotle, Ayn Rand, purile humour , Monty Python , John Singer Sargent, Goya, Bellini, Hildegard Von Bingen, being free, blossom, horses, the South of France, the Alentejo, the feeling I win from bring creative, the train journey on from Edinburgh going North on the East Coast, and a solid fried breakfast. With really posh, quality, sausages.

I love the summer and the fact that I live near Hyde park .
What I’m doing with my life
Working hard.
I love socialising at weekends and I write, play Violin and keep fit . Spending quality time with my friends as much as possible. Leaving London most weekends. I spend two weekends a month writing, all day. I am two thirds into my first novel , which is going really well, better than I ever hoped.
I’m really good at
Speaking Spanish.
Poaching eggs .
Being chirpy
Lying on the sofa , daydreaming and reading.
Asking questions , including for directions, even though I am a man .
Enjoying dancing , and I naturally have no rhythm .
The first things people usually notice about me
I am tall, friendly , relaxed. Courteous and interested in other peoples lives, I ask a lot of questions because I like to hear other people's perspectives.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Films; Jaws. It's a masterpiece of direction. Google 'quints monologue Jaws, youtube' if you dont believe me.Casablanca . City of God. Withnail & I. Un lugar en el mundo.

Books. I love reading. Jane eyre. For whom the bell tolls. Wolf Hall & Bring up the bodies. Confessions of an English opium eater. Atlas shrugged. Treasure island. Proust . Isaac Bashevis Singer. War and Peace. Anna Karenina. Virginia Wolf. Mario Vargas Llosa. Sterne. George Eliot. Elizabethan Poetry (Wyatt). Plato . The sypomposium. Aristotle: ethics and poetics. Robinson Crusoe. Rebecca. With the exception of Hemingway and Hilary Mantle, I tend not to read much contemporary fiction.

Plays: anything by Shakespeare , in particular Hamlet and the Tempest. Arcadia , Stoppard. She stoops to conquer.

Music: classical from early (pre renaissance) thru to Beethoven, then with a small stop off for Vaughan Williams , Richard Strauss' four last songs

Rock. Reggae. Blues. Jazz (trad, cool, blue note). Funk (fela kuti, the crusaders). Folk . Punk. (siouxsie and the banshees, the clash) Americana. Latin. Love stuff from all these genres . I adore Soul. It makes me feel good, and is so generous spirited.

Shows : I have no tv. Don't like musicals.

Food : Any traditional peasant food. Wholesome stews. Game . Huge salads .
The six things I could never do without
Being outside in the sun
Olive oil
Nooky! - I can't beleive that no one else has put this down !
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What I want to achieve
When I lived abroad
Beautiful places
What matters?
Boring things I have to do
The big stuff. Existence.
On a typical Friday night I am
hosting a dinner party or going to one or staying with friends for the weekend out of London
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You are good company- interesting or amusing or both ! I am not interested in what anyone knows, what you wear, what accent you have, but how you think. Enthusiastic . You don't swallow main stream opinions like many people . You are multi dimensional , with interest in something beyond just surviving. You care about something , greatly.

You see life as an opportunity.