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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25-42
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:37am
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English, Spanish (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a listener, but I enjoy relaxed and serious conversation - and banter. I like big epic landscapes, dinner parties , reggae, rock , blues,lots of classical music , Shakespeare , the Bronte Sisters, Virginia Wolf, Aristotle, Ayn Rand, purile humour , Monty Python , John Singer Sargent, Goya, being free, blossom, horses, the South of France, the Alentejo, the feeling I win from bring creative, the train journey on from Edinburgh going North on the East Coast, and a fried breakfast. With really posh, quality, sausages.

I love the summer and the fact that I live near Hyde park .
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working hard.
I love socialising at weekends and I write, learn Violin and keep fit . Spending quality time with my friends and family as much as possible. Leaving London most weekends. I spend two weekends a month writing, all day. I am two thirds into my first novel , which is going really well, better than I ever hoped.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking Spanish.
Poaching eggs .
Being chirpy
Lying on the sofa , daydreaming and reading.
Asking questions , including for directions, even though I am a man .
Enjoying dancing , and I naturally have no rhythm .
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am tall, friendly , relaxed. Courteous and interested in other peoples lives, I ask a lot of questions because I am curious. (Well, OK, this is actually where politeness and self interest merge: I hope to learn something that way.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Films: Jaws. It's a masterpiece of direction. Google 'quints monologue Jaws, youtube' if you dont believe me.Casablanca . City of God. Withnail & I. Un lugar en el mundo. Although I am writing a film script as well, as a medium it doesn't compare with literature.

Books. I love reading. Jane eyre. For whom the bell tolls. Wolf Hall & Bring up the bodies. Confessions of an English opium eater. Atlas shrugged. Treasure island. Proust . Isaac Bashevis Singer. War and Peace. Anna Karenina. Virginia Wolf. Mario Vargas Llosa. Sterne. George Eliot. Elizabethan Poetry (Wyatt). Plato . The sypomposium. Aristotle: ethics and poetics. Robinson Crusoe. Rebecca. With the exceptions of Hemingway and Hilary Mantle, I don't read much contemporary fiction.

Plays: anything by Shakespeare , in particular Hamlet and the Tempest. Arcadia , Stoppard. She stoops to conquer.

Music: a wide range of classical , and Rock. Reggae. Blues. Jazz (trad, cool, blue note). Funk (fela kuti, the crusaders). Folk . Punk. (siouxsie and the banshees, the clash) Americana. Latin. Love stuff from all these genres . I adore Soul. It makes me feel good, and is generous spirited.

Shows : I have no tv. Don't like musicals.

Food : Any traditional food. Wholesome stews. Game . Huge salads . All sea food - I used to live in Peru, which is a curse , as I now have absurd standards about sea food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being outside in the sun
Olive oil
Nooky! - I can't beleive that no one else has put this down !
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I want to achieve
When I lived abroad
Beautiful places
What matters?
Boring things I have to do
How to get the most out of my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hosting a dinner party or going to one or staying with friends for the weekend out of London
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lentils give me gas!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are good company- interesting or amusing or both ! I am not interested in what anyone knows, what you wear, what accent you have, but how you think. Enthusiastic . You don't swallow main stream opinions like many people . You are multi dimensional , with interest in something beyond just surviving. You care about something , greatly.

You see life as an opportunity.