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43 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has cats

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My self-summary
I'm looking for my sweet and spicy, my fun-loving-sexy soul connection, my strong, gentle, well-balanced man of many talents, my needle in a haystack! You're out there, I know you are and I know we will discover each other.... Let the treasure hunt begin and may we both win lolol. So please, be my guest and thank you for visiting my profile.

I am a very kind, sweet, nurturing and real kind a woman with an edge...
I am a very easy-going, fun-loving, adventurous, feminine yet rough and tumble kind a girl. My fingernails are hardly ever painted, but my toenails always are!

I don't easily fit into any one specific box, as my interests are wide and varying. I can find something interesting in just about everything and I see the world and especially the people in it through 'curious-colored' glasses.

I am a practioner of 'positive-thinking' and also keeping it real... Yes, it can be done lolol!! If this one particular statement resonates with you, I would love to get to know you better!!

I understand and beleive the way a person thinks determines his or her reality and destiny... a self-fulfilling prophecy and I am thankful for all the hardships I have had in my life for each one has taught me many a lesson and has made me the strong woman I am today!!!

I have also learned to not take life so seriously unless a seriousness is absolutely required, in which case I rise to the challenge! I am the head of this single mom's household :)

I absolutely love to dance, especially salsa and ballroom and would love to find a dance partner. Preferrably an experienced dancer or at least some experience. No experience, but confidence, a willingness to learn and some semblence of musicality would be good also :) Or someone who wants to teach me a new kind of dancing... dancing naked through the woods, or maybe by the water... at night time perhaps lol

So as you can see by my pics I am sometimes blonde and sometimes red or brunette.... Curious to know which you like best and why?? Changing it up (my hair color, that is!!!) can be useful in a long-term relationship, if you know what I mean;)

I am 5ft2, have blue eyes and an hour-glass shape. I'm not every guys perfect girl, but I'm looking for the one that finds me perfect on the eyes, on the soul, and vice versa, an equal atrraction both physically and of the mind.
I will not settle for anything less than being completely adored and treasured, not spoiled, just adored. I also won't settle for less than feeling the same way about my partner! Life's too short to settle!!
Well, if what I have divulged so far has caught your attention, please read on and if you think we are like-minded then send me a message, but please include in your message which question it is where I mention 'your lips' ....
What I’m doing with my life
Regrouping. Contemplating. Dreaming. Moving forward and fine tuning. Working in the same career for the last 13 years, which I love. Raising my 4yr old son, the single-most important thing to me.
Learning, ALWAYS learning.
Trying to catch a moment to myself now and then to maintain inner peace and evaluate, reaffirm or redirect myself, my path in life.... Trying to have as much adult fun and entertainment with friends and quite possibly YOU reading this, if you're a like-minded, sexy, strong, gentle, good-hearted man and the chemistry is great!
I’m really good at
Listening, loving, learning, helping others, being nice, being the best person I can and being kind to all, keeping calm under pressure, raising my son, using the small amount of time that I don't have my son and am not working to have some adult fun time and enjoy life. Latin and ballroom dancing. Cooking, not baking. I used to be good at gymnastics...and would probably still be good at kid games such as 'tag' and 'hide-n-go-seek'!!...maybe even kickball?!? ¦}
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes or my smile...OR maybe they notice my friendliness!!! Yah, I think thats it, but then you would have to ask 'the people' noticing, now wouldn't you ~ lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not so much time for reading books for me lately, but I can tell you all about dinosaurs. A few of my fav books are 'The Secret', 'Celestine Prophecy,' and Intensity.'
One of my fav movies of all time is 'An Affair of Love,' a French movie.
Like all music except most really hard heavy metal and really raunchy rap.
Foodwise, I pretty much like everything except Sardine, but Thai food is my all-time fav food. Love the freshness, explosion and complexity of taste in every bite!!!
The six things I could never do without
My son, my close friends, my career, my independence, my ability to live, love, learn, enjoy life and be a part of something that is bigger than all of us!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My life~ past, present and future. Every aspect of it...
Kissing, holding, loving and intimacy, both raw and beautiful ;)
What will the future hold?! The possibilities are endless and it's what we make of it!!!! Is it YOU I see in my future.........
On a typical Friday night I am
Either relaxing watching a movie after a particularly long week or Latin and ballroom dancing a long week away....
Out with friends or trying to catch a solo insightful moment in time. Maybe at a cafe, people-watching or somewhere overlooking the bay, the water, or the lights at night glistening off the water. I find such peace, beauty and soul in places like that. A place I can absorb all that into me, and let my thoughts run wild.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing I'm willing to admit publicly on this site - I have blue eyes, hahaa;) With the right person and privately I'm an open book!!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You should send me a message if you are like-minded and all I have divulged in my profile has caught your attention, has left you curious, and has climbed up to your lips and softly prodded them to respond. If all of the above then hurry, sweet thing don't keep me waiting...