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goodguy4u_now

47 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:53pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
[FYI]: All my information is honest, accurate and up to date.
I must warn you though, I actually look like my photos! I know that's not common for someone to really be who they say they are especially on these online dating sites. I happen to be an exception. ;) I must admit though that the picture of me as a 3 year old wasn't taken recently. =)
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Are you READY... to be loved? I know... it may sound a bit cheesy but... when you think about it... there's a chance you might not be... ready. I'm sure you've heard that you need to love your self first. Success, regardless of whether it's about fame and fortune, losing weight or falling in love... it WILL happen when and if it's meant to happen but you need to be ready... first.
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Maybe I sound rather serious in my profile? That's because I am serious... about meeting someone special but I do have a good sense of humor and I would hope you do too. I can be sarcastic but not at someone else's expense. That is, unless they deserve it! J/k Ha ha ;)
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I've heard that it will happen just when I least expect it, or when I'm not "looking" for it... so while I'm here... my eyes are "closed"... but my heart is... o p e n. ;)
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My friends tell me I'm too picky... about everything and everyone. I tell them not to flatter themselves! Ha ha!
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I've come to understand one important factor when it comes to a relationship that truly works. A person wants to be with another person that makes them feel good about THEMSELVES. In other words, I make "her" feel good about HER and "she" makes me feel good about ME. I believe it's the essence of true compatibility.
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We don't have to have the same exact interests either as long as we respect and appreciate each others passions. Differences between well-matched people creates captivating experiences.
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You know it's practically impossible to get a REAL idea of anyone here but one way to put it is that I consider myself a... "at the end of the day, what matters" type of guy.
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I'm honest, real, and not your typical guy. I'm understanding; (let's talk about it), creative, open minded, down to earth; (real),
good-hearted; (not a player), ambitious, spontaneous; (grab your jacket, we're going out!), romantic, compassionate and passionate guy with an off-beat sense of humor, interested in getting to know a SPECIAL sweetie with similar attributes... preferably someone who LOVES to kiss. ;)
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Incidentally, I've never been married and I have no children... that I know of. (LOL!)
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I'm a Boston boy... where we keep reality in check! ;) I'm selective because I value relationships as I believe we all should. After all, what's more important than having an ultimate connection where we can progress together? I don't expect this to be easy... but what great things in life are?
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Give me the chance to offer you the ATTENTION YOU deserve... finally.
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I look forward to knowing YOU... ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
Physically? My eyes. Secondly, that time has been good to me. Seriously, don't be fooled by my age. Most people don't believe I'm older than 35! ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Seems like most people aren't understanding this question.
The key words are not 'private' or 'admit'. It's the words 'most' and 'willing'.

Most people respond by saying something along these lines... "If it's private, then I won't admit it." Instead of stating something private but not TOO private to admit.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're interesting... and interested in having the time of your life with someone who is ready for "us" to happen. If you want to be with someone who will really be there for you and who is really interested in knowing you and is tired of head games.