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goodwinelover

53 Albuquerque, NM Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–58
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
May 3
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hello gentlemen, a man on here once told me, "the opener with all those lines it is a bit overwhelming. It gave me the sense that you might be a little over the top." Over the top or know what I want? You decide. I have had some FABULOUS discussions with some of you, and I have enjoyed these conversations significantly, but when it comes to meeting face to face...well the excuses start flowing. So if you're still reading, carry on.

1 I’m not Barbie and I’m not looking for Ken...besides with her
boob:feet ratio she should fall flat on her face!
2 Ken is overrated
3 I’m spontaneous
4 Active and love the outdoors; camping, hiking, snow shoeing.
5 Big dogs are the best
6 I'll love you for your mind;
7 Be captivated by your personality;
8 I like shootin' guns.
9 I’ll pleasure you in ways that leave you sighing and smiling for hours afterward.
10 Keep you on your toes.
11 I appreciate a gentleman with an adventurous spirit.
12 Call you out when you are being awful (a version of 10, above).
13 I'm not a pushover or a bitch, but I will share my opinions.
14 If you're fresh out of a relationship, separated, still hanging on to your last relationship, you're looking for a pen pal or if you really aren't ready for a NEW relationship then please, please save both of us the time and energy.
15 I'm genuine.
16 We’ll have frank discussions about anything and everything.
17 I won't say "nothing" when you ask what I'm thinking.
18 I know that "fine" is not an acceptable answer if you ask me how I feel.
19 Your ass is perfect.
20 Speaking of your ass, I'll grab it at random times but even in public no-one else will really see that move.
21 I'll never sleep with your friends, or your brother.
22 We can watch your movie first.
23 We'll enjoy intimate and intellectual conversations.
24 I'll listen to you. And think about what you have to say.
25 I'll remember what we discussed.
26 I'm decisive.
27 I'm sensual.
28 I'll keep you laughing.
29 I'm confident and outgoing.
30 Sometimes I like to just say it like it is and call sex with you "****ing."
31 I'll tell you when you're wrong, but do so in a way that makes it seem as if some inexplicable chain of events happened that produced this rare occurrence.
32 I give great back rubs, but honestly, I’d rather receive one from you
33 You want to hike and would like a buddy.
34 I keep secrets.
35 You'll never have to ask if you can trust me.
36 I'm as comfortable in sexy shoes and a little black dress as I am in a pair of old, worn jeans and a tee.
37 I'm intelligent.
38 I love my mom and dad, but no longer have either.
39 It's fun to cook together.
40 I love romantic weekend getaways.
41 Ditto for drives to locations covered by category #40.
42 Your friends will wonder why you're smiling all the time.
43 My emails and texts will leave a grin on your face.
44 You'll feel better waking up next to me.
45 I like good surprises ...and of course great wine!
46 I'll let it go.
47 I'll give you space.
48 You'll get pleasant surprises on occasion. For no special reason.
49 I have a job.
50 I like my job.
51 I’m a Nurse, so I have nice blocks of 3-4 days off, more at times and I can be ready for road trips in a jiffy.
52 I can string together simple sentences that embody ideas.
53 I prefer thin-crust pizza with pineapple and green chili
54 I love to travel to far away places and get off of the beaten path.
55 I fight fair.
56 I can ,and will, forgive.
57 And forget.
58 I'll brag about you on occasion.
59 I'm monogamous.
60 I can't stand lying or laziness.
61 I'm candid.
62 I don't try too hard.
63 I'm comfortable in my own skin.
64 I'd probably be more comfortable brushed up against your skin.
65 We'll laugh till our stomachs hurt.
66 I'll dance with you in the rain.
67 Uh, I can't dance, but I'd love to learn. Can you teach me?
68 I'll be nice to your family, even if they may be half-crazed, mine is.
69 . . .
70 I'll let you decide what should be in category # 69.
71 I believe in making efforts to put one's partner first.
72 On my part that includes being blind to other men.
73 I have four degrees, I LOVE learning.
74 Sex is running a close 3rd behind love and communication but it often notches itself higher.
75 I’m a certified SCUBA diver
76 I've never been married but I’ve come very close twice.
77 I don’t have kids.
78 I'm playful, yet serious when necessary.
79 I'm optimistic.
80 I'm open to whatever develops between us.
81 I'm not commitment-impaired.
82 I enjoy a really nice bottle of wine with or without a fine dinner.
83 I like cooking over a campfire.
84 I enjoy long, slow kisses and been told I am a very good.
85 I love being wrapped in your arms.
86 I love appropriate PDAs.
87 In private I love to touch, caress and snuggle and receive the same.
88 I can entertain your boss or our friends.
89 There is a whole world out there with my name on it that needs to be explored.
90 You prefer to say why not vs why.
91 We’ll discover ways to find pleasure in all we do together.
92 If either of us decides it's not right, we can part as friends.
93 I’m liberated.
94 I’m happy backpacking or in a 4 star hotel
95 I crew for a hot air balloon
96 I’ve been waterfall rappelling
97 I know it's the little things that make the relationship more exciting!
98 I think open and honest communication can generate feelings.
99 I’ve been to 4 of the 7 continents...3 to go!
100 I have beautiful hazel eyes to gaze into and a great smile.

Now, here are the basics: I'm fluffy, but fit, highly educated, well-traveled, well-dressed.
 
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work and I am in Nursing school, the beginning of a new adventure. I'll make time for you in there...somewhere : ) Some people think I'm crazy to start a new career when everyone else is thinking about retirement, but I'll still have more flexibility once I'm finished with school in August. Woohoo!!!

That said, after I get a little experience under my belt I would like to do some travel nursing. I'm not bound to ABQ or NM. Travel nursing often has 13 week to a few months assignments and I think it will be a great way see and experience different places. If you are an adventurous type person and think this could be fun we might get along. I'm probably a couple of years out from that plan.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people feel comfortable
...and evidently, building a deck! My deck won first prize in a RYOBI tools contest and was featured on there June home page AND ....LOL, LOL, LOL I am in the Hall of Fame! one more time...LOL)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes or maybe my crooked smile : /
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love novels based on history vs. full history, Shadow of the Wind and Prisoner of Heaven, first and third in a series by Carlos Zafon an incredible Spanish writer, Currently reading _____ ...OK finished those any suggestions?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dogs
Friends
Passport
Camera
a beautiful red wine
chocolate
I can only have 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Traveling and living abroad and wondering why OKC doesn't always tell you where "Quick Matches" live...maybe they think we'll be so enamored it doesn't matter????
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing 'Typical'
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Get to know me and I may tell you... ~wink~
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You think you might like me and you have a great sense of humor, love adventures, love crazy dogs, you can appreciate a really good wine and a lady with some curves!